I’m a bit different. I have been on methadone 35 years. The highest dose I got to was 65mg but now I’m at 50mg. I was fine for about 1year then my great drive went to nothing. No drive, I quit going out and dating. Became a virtual hermit. I got very fat and then had sleeve surgery. Lost 100lbs but even though I lost quite a bit of gut, some problems persisted. I read it wasn’t good for prostate not to ejaculate so I started again. I’m 63 now and with pictures or video I can reach partial erection and can masturbate to completion but it is similar to when I started puberty; nothing comes out. The orgasm is not too thrilling. This is so embarrassing. I’m glad I’m anonymous. Ok, after surgery, my gut is smaller but my normal size penis will turtle inside my scrotum and must be popped out. It is usually easier since the surgery but some days it is so tucked in that it takes awhile to get it out without photos to help the process. Now living alone, I am pretty sure my dating life is over (maybe; you never know) but the problem that really bothers me is having to “sit to piss” most of the time. It is irritating when only urinals are available or when I need to piss badly and the coax out takes so long that I end up with pissy fingers. Does anyone think testosterone could help me? It’s even hard to discuss with my regular doctor. Also, at 63, is it common to orgasm with no sperm release or even pre-ejaculate? My wet dreams have not occurred in about 15 years. Aarrgh! I really hate admitting these problems even as a “guest”. Thanks for any advice in advance.
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Hi, i am in a very similar situation to you, for nearly 2 years we have not had sex or any type of intamacy, it's been really hard considering we were in a new relationship. We both started taking methadone and very quickly it killed our sex life. My partner made up excuses as to why we wouldn't have sex, i started thinking that he didn't fancy me and that he couldn't do anything because he didn't like me that way. I started getting paranoid about everything. What made things even worse is that i gained 2 and half stone (35lbs) and looked horrendous. The methadone really messed me up. I became convinced that he was going elsewhere for sex. What i didn't know was that the methadone had completely ruined his ability to get it up. He had no sex drive. When we began to talk to each other about the problems we were having it felt like a weight had been lifted from the both of us. It took 4 months to open up.. We realised it was the methadone that had took away our intamacy. The fantastic thing is that even though for 2 years we hadn't had sex we totally love each other and understand each other so well. In a way the lack of sex made us open up to each other and get to know each other properly. So last weekend we thought we would try and have a bit of an experiment. We had lots of drink and MDMA in the hope of been able to get intimate , however it didn't go to plan and nothing happened, i felt totally rejected and sat in the other room crying. I thought that after everything he was just talking the talk to make me feel better and to maybe saying this to stop me from going on. Anyway last night he said the most unexpected thing "he said let's go pharmacy tomorrow and get Viagra" i was stunned i thought maybe he's just saying this. Anyway today he was so impatient he he got pissed off with me because i took so long to get ready for the pharmacy. So i can tell you ATM we just got back from the pharmacy with viagra in hand. I will inform you tomorrow if the situation is let's say..happy birthday to me.....lol!! Fingers crossed it goes to plan or not if you know what i mean..i am excited but nervous as hell ..it feels like its the first time we have been together!! Butterflies in stomach x
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Since I've been on methadone I lost my desire to have sex and I now have erectile dysfunction
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i am having the same problem, it doesnt get better, it does get worse. get off methadone asap.
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