Yesterday I have been at some party that was organized in my neighborhood. Everyone from my street was invited. There I have met a lot of people but most important of all I have met one incredible girl that I have been noticed before. She is wife of some guy who is in army somewhere in Asia. I have invited her at my house for cup of coffee. Of course I expect much more and I think that I will get it. Don't you love military wives?
My brother is in army and similar situation has happened to him. You should know that it is not just some fun game and that it is not like in high school when you compete with other guys. My brother has two kids and now they suffer because of that game. Maybe you should think about consequences more and that you could ruin someones life.
Just Don't do it! Think about all the unintended consequences. Wait until she is single again (sounds like she will be soon). Getting involved with married woman is only going to cause you and others a lot of heartache. Walk away from it.