i used to give guys head all the time i loved it and they always told me i was the best i have been with my partner for 2 years and i cant make him cum by oral it really annoys me and i am over it i dont give him head at all anymore, i think it also has to do with the fact he cheated on me while i was 7months pregnant with our son. i really dont no how to get our sex life back to how it was it drives me crazy he goes down on me only because i just cant get into it now unless he starts the whole process, the hardest thing i guess is no girl has ever made him cum how do i fix this i am looking for any ideas. also any ideas how to get him interested in sex toys i used to use them with my exs all the time but my partner is embarressed to go into a sex shop
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Darlin, it's not your fault you take too long. Trust me, I have the same problem. My bf can't get me off when we're making love so he fingers me & does oral. He get's a little annoyed with me at times because I can't "get off" but I did some research about it & we talked. If a girl tries too hard or feels pressured by herself or her partner to orgasm it wont happen. Don't stress it love, relax. You guys should be enjoying that together make each other feel amazing. He needs to loosen up a little and be more understanding. :-D You'll be alright hun. I know it(:
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months, been bestfriends for 5 years, and fooling around for 1 year. He has NEVER went down on me. weird? i think so too. He says "hasnt is occurred to you that maybe i just dont like it".
Ummm, has it occurred to you that maybe sex isnt a one way street?
what should i say? I do stuff for him all the time. He just started touching me down there 3 weeks ago after I had to ask him why he never does. I think its me in general, he says its not. But when your boyfriend doesnt want to touch you anywhere except your boobs, it makes you start to think its you.
siigghhhhhhhhhhhhh
Ummm, has it occurred to you that maybe sex isnt a one way street?
what should i say? I do stuff for him all the time. He just started touching me down there 3 weeks ago after I had to ask him why he never does. I think its me in general, he says its not. But when your boyfriend doesnt want to touch you anywhere except your boobs, it makes you start to think its you.
siigghhhhhhhhhhhhh
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I love satisfying my girlfriend. Unfortunately, I feel a little one-sided when it comes to pleasuring (On the bed of course). First, I usually start with a full body massage, (Which she then strips down nude) and keep going until I've massaged her from head to toe. Then I'll go down on her, tease her with oral for 10 minutes an move on to fingering her. I get her to an amazing orgasm (By what she tells me and what her body behavior is) and then we usually stop. Very rarely do I ever get something out of it, and everytime I do, it falls short...really short...In truth, I don't even enjoy it that much. :-P It upsets me to a degree.
I feel like she is being a little selfish is short. She won't give me oral because she thinks it's disgusting...but If I give her oral it's perfectly fine. <----In a way, it kind of makes me a little mad and it feels like I'm giving more than what I'm receiving. Am I being selfish here? or what? Because I never get anything when we get all...hows the word...funky?
Anyways...It's a problem of my own.
I feel like she is being a little selfish is short. She won't give me oral because she thinks it's disgusting...but If I give her oral it's perfectly fine. <----In a way, it kind of makes me a little mad and it feels like I'm giving more than what I'm receiving. Am I being selfish here? or what? Because I never get anything when we get all...hows the word...funky?
Anyways...It's a problem of my own.
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my boyfriend use to go down on me but now barely even touches me. I give him oral like 4 times a week and I haven't received in a year maybe more. Idk what happened. I am super clean down there I even told him I wanted it and I didn't get any I've tried everything. I feel dirty for wanting it so bad but I miss it.
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I hear ya Nick, same here.
I never had a girl who would do more than a hand job for me.
My wife won't even do that. "I don't want to kiss or touch that thing, but you can stick it in me."
Funny thing, she DID before we got married. I guess they must be programmed to do the things we like, to make us think we are going to enjoy being married to them.
As the years went by I got kind of tired of being the only one giving sex and our love life began to really slow down. When she complained about that I told her it was just not much fun for me anymore when she never gave anything back. Of course that's the same as calling someone a lousy lover, so you can imagine the reaction to that. Eventually, when she was about 50 she "remembered" that her father abused her as a teen and she says that must be the reason she doesn't want to touch me.
Of course as young men we are programmed to want to get our hands and faces on what she has as often as we get the chance. As you get older that's just not enough when you never get anything in return. As the saying goes, it really does take two to Tango.
I hear the statements by women in old movies about how it's the wife's duty to have sex with those gross creatures they marry and now I wonder if that's truly the way most women feel about it. I'm 70 now but when I was a teen I couldn't believe that was true and I figured that was just what the girls wanted us to think and women used to say in public to keep up appearances. I used to think that girls secretly liked it just as much as us guys, but now I'm not so sure. Maybe most of them really don't like sex, just like the old movies say.
I never had a girl who would do more than a hand job for me.
My wife won't even do that. "I don't want to kiss or touch that thing, but you can stick it in me."
Funny thing, she DID before we got married. I guess they must be programmed to do the things we like, to make us think we are going to enjoy being married to them.
As the years went by I got kind of tired of being the only one giving sex and our love life began to really slow down. When she complained about that I told her it was just not much fun for me anymore when she never gave anything back. Of course that's the same as calling someone a lousy lover, so you can imagine the reaction to that. Eventually, when she was about 50 she "remembered" that her father abused her as a teen and she says that must be the reason she doesn't want to touch me.
Of course as young men we are programmed to want to get our hands and faces on what she has as often as we get the chance. As you get older that's just not enough when you never get anything in return. As the saying goes, it really does take two to Tango.
I hear the statements by women in old movies about how it's the wife's duty to have sex with those gross creatures they marry and now I wonder if that's truly the way most women feel about it. I'm 70 now but when I was a teen I couldn't believe that was true and I figured that was just what the girls wanted us to think and women used to say in public to keep up appearances. I used to think that girls secretly liked it just as much as us guys, but now I'm not so sure. Maybe most of them really don't like sex, just like the old movies say.
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Tam_016...ot any girls that has an issue with their boyfriend NOT pleasing them FIRST ! ..your boyfriends are selfish. As long as your clean and the smell is good, they should not have a problem with it. If it takes you a long ime to have to climax it's because your worring about how long it's going to take so in my opinion it's his fault for making you uncomfortable! ! Women need time ...men don't. It's very selflish of a guy not to want to please his woman first, then he gets satsfied. Once a guy climaxes they lose interest ...YOU NEED TO COME FIRST ! LITERALLY ! lol my daughter has this same issue with her 16 YO boyfriend..I gave her the same advise ! momNJ
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hey Nick,
no your not selfish ...just the opposite you have done everything to please her. She is a lucky girl...a lot of boys/men just don't care....
You need to talk this out with her. Tell her how you feel. There are other ways for her to satisfy you. Try a hand job instead of a blow job. It may take her longer but she should have no problem with that ! Just my opinion......sex it suppose to be wonderful... not work ! if one partner is uncomfortable this takes all the enjoyment out of it....it's a 2 way street and then and only then will both partners have the incredible connection that we get only from sex/lovemaking!
no your not selfish ...just the opposite you have done everything to please her. She is a lucky girl...a lot of boys/men just don't care....
You need to talk this out with her. Tell her how you feel. There are other ways for her to satisfy you. Try a hand job instead of a blow job. It may take her longer but she should have no problem with that ! Just my opinion......sex it suppose to be wonderful... not work ! if one partner is uncomfortable this takes all the enjoyment out of it....it's a 2 way street and then and only then will both partners have the incredible connection that we get only from sex/lovemaking!
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Y'all have sucky boyfriends. I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now and I go down on her everytime we do stuff and I don't even ask for sex after unless she wants it but she always gives it to me because when you actually care sex isn't a selfish thing. It feels great for me and her but as a guy with her I want to pleasure her more than I care about pleasuring myself. So you have penis boyfriends
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i have simular problembs... i mean i love getting orgasms... but he always says... really??? right now??? can i do it later r tonight r tommorow...... it makes me feel like he doesnt want me anymore... we barely have sex and we fight constantly...... i mean i no i dont smell bad because i take showers first and i always ask him if i tast r smell bad and he says no.... so then hes like you take to long... im sorry but its hard to hit the spot when u move your toungue differently every second.... ugh it gets agrivaating :(
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Wow i totally agree with you! my boyfriend and i used to have great sex he'd always go down on me and i would go down on him and NOW my boyfriend rolls his eyes like hes totally not into it and it 'takes to long' everytime we would have sex im the only one who's doing all the work but when i ask him to go down on me he says "tomorrow i will" and tomorrow comes and he doesn't just keeps saying the same thing every night and doesn't do it and makes excuses saying "im tired" meanwhile hes not. so i told him no sex. a women has to enjoy a little more somethign then f*****g her man. I don't mean to brag. i don't think i smell or anything.
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to the two previous quotes ... i know it hurts to hear this but if they have done if before and is just being lazy, they've lost interest in you!!!
we hear a lot more frequently women saying they are tired because guys complain ... but equally you girls have all the right to kick them if they have lost interest.
we hear a lot more frequently women saying they are tired because guys complain ... but equally you girls have all the right to kick them if they have lost interest.
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