Hey, basically my boyfriend fingered me the other day, it went on for about an hour. After it I couldn't exactly walk. I looked in the bathroom soon as I got back from his and I noticed my virgina was swollen. I was in so much pain, and also because I was wearing jeans it was rubbing and making a purply pink kind of colour. We were planning on having sex today, but the bottom of my virgina is still swollen. I seriously dont want to let him down because I've let him down loads. Its so embaressing because we havent been seeing for that long I feel uncomfortable telling him, what shall I do? And is there any way I can get the swelling to go down fast? Please help!
Hi, it sounds like you will just have to be patient and wait for the swelling to go down as there isn't any fast way to make it happen. If you go ahead and have sex then your just irritate it more and cause more pain and swelling.
I'm guessing that your bf got a bit on the rough side when he was fingering you, you may have also not been lubricated enough all the time and the friction caused it to.
If it happens again to take the pain away and help reduce the swelling wrap some had or a pack of frozen peas in a thin towel and hold that on the area and it should help.
You bf will just have to be patient to have sex with you and you have every right to say no your not ready too. :-)