My boyfriend gets hard and ejaculates but doesn't get the feeling of an orgasm, why is that?
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This can be what is known as "Ejaculatory Anhedonia" or "Anorgasmic Ejaculation." Does his condition worry you or him or both? If not, then there isn't really anything to worry about.
Many people experience orgasms differently. Orgasm and ejaculation are closely related but the two can be desynchronized so that there can be ejaculation without orgasm and orgasm without ejaculation.
Anorgasmic Ejaculation causes no physical harm, but may or may not be what is happening in your boyfriend's case. Does he have orgasms at other times during oral, vaginal, and/or anal sex, but not when ejaculating? Does he find that other sexual sensations give him the feeling of release or orgasmic pleasure? What about when he masturbates?
Experts reckon that sometimes there is no peak feeling and sometimes that feeling comes long before ejaculation. Some men don't have a lot of feeling when they ejaculate, and some men have lots of peak feelings, with and without ejaculations.
If he wants to pursue the matter, a urologist could try to find out exactly what is going on with a few simple tests.
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