my boyfriend is he gay or not and why is he getting aroused is it normal???

Hi Dolly
In your first post you said how you had caught your boyfriend and his best friend more than once doing things like hugging, kissing, hands on your boyfriend’s crotch and how your boyfriend was aroused by this.
I can’t tell you what to do I can only give my opinion which I have.
I think maybe the best thing is for you to sort out would you be further off just being friends with your boyfriend and drop the relationship part of it.
With all you have said I feel your boyfriend’s interests and attraction is with his best friend all the stuff he does with him and his jealousy towards his friend doing stuff with other people is perfectly normal far an GAY couple in a relationship.
I think even without proving it beyond the shadow of a doubt that it is very clear that theses to guys have a serious attraction for each other and nothing will change that.
It may benefit you more just to accept that you have a gay friend and forget about the relationship the doubts the stress over his sexuality, is it worth all this because you can’t change it or control it.
Would you be happier with a different gut that is committed to you and only you rather than being with a guy that seems to be more interested in what his gay friend is doing and does for him?

Yeah ur right but i never commented i acted as if i saw ntn
No i guess every person would like hid partner to be his whether ur gay or straight dont u agree
I think ur right i should give them there time
Thank u so much uve been really helpful

Your welcome it a tough situation to be in I hope everything works out you can still be good friends and I hope you decide it is time to do what is best for you good luck.

I hope so and thx again for ur help :)