when I was 40 years old I stopped having a period, I told mydoctor then that I was getting very dry down their and white and black color on lips and it hurt really bad to have intercourse, well he checked me outand said I was to young to start having menopause even though I was having a lot of signs well know at 55 my vaginal lips are still black really white , sore have blood from some really big sores I tried to get in to see a different gyn doctor they can get me in 6 months from know ( small town) my sister said it looks like it could be cancer