Well, I believe that subject tells it all but here are some details. I’ve had a boyfriend for three years...but that’s not the point really.... The problem is that I had a few friends a few good ones my junior ans senior year. Then I transferred to a different school and I am on the xc team. Almost all girls here live in the dorms while and I live at home, because it is only few minutes away from where I live. The problem is that I feel so left out. I have a really hard time striking up a conversaton with these girls. These freshman in the dorms are always walking in together and laughing, while I sit there all alone. Sometimes I just want to cry… I feel so left out. I feel like I have a hard time making friends....I mean, I believe they are not jelouse...they are all real pretty girls and some of them are even faster than m. What hurt me most is that they keep getting in a little circle and talk, while I am sitting there strecthing. Also they all hung out on the town and go bowling and go out to eat, but never invite me…. I really ned some help here. What is wrong with me...I feel it is too late to try and fit in with the freshman girls. I am also embarasses because my coach notices the whole thing...he once came up to me and told me that I didnt have much to say... so embarrassing! Can anyone tell me what can I do to try to fit in with these girls who remind so much of highschool. I want to jsut grow up and be everyones friend..
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Well, I had the exact same thing at my old school. I my case, I decided to join another school and I loved it. I really don't know what you could do against it. Maybe you could just try and talk along with them and not be quiet. I mean, you have nothing to lose…It's not like they are going to kill you… I’m sure they like you as you seem like such a nice person, so don't worry about that. Even if they all don’t accept you at once, I’m sure there will be at least a one girl that will…. Just try to communicate with them and don't be afraid. I’m sure you’ll get over this… It is going to be tough, but what’s gotta be done it’s gotta be done. Sorry if I haven't been much of a help but I know it will get better!! good luck!!!
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I can't really give any advice, but just know you're not alone. There are many other boys and girls feeling the same way… I had a small group of close friends in high school but then when I went to college I didn't really make any close friends. I mean, I got along with pretty much everyone, but they would all get together and I would never be invited. There's nothing wrong with you!
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Oh honey - everybody's been there at some point or another. The worst thing you could do is try to butt in on their conversations, or, worst of all, go into a corner and avoid all eye contact with everybody. The best advice I could give you is to always have a happy, positive disposition. That attracts people. I mean, even if they whish to invite you, if you look miserable they will simply say “we don’t want her to spoil our party” or whatever. Also keep your studies and assignments completed and on schedule. Also, keep exercising the way you do and eat well. But, as I said, your good attitude about life in general will inevitably shine through - and TRUST me, people respond to that. Make eye contacts, smile, but still maintain a "take me or leave me" attitude. There is no way this can fail!!!
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