Our daughter is 15 also and non-virgin and being baptized this easter weekend at easter vigil and she is going to wear the traditional white,poofy,top of the knees,short sleeve baptism dress and matching bonnet with white tights and white mary jane shoes.She will have the cloth baptismal diaper and white rubberpants over it under her tights with a camisole as her top.
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Our daughter is 15 and non virgin and finially made her First Communion this past May 20th with the 2nd graders in the class of 2018.She wore the knee length,sleeveless communion dress and veil with the lace anklets and the white 'mary jane'shoes.She had the cloth diaper,plastic pants and sleeveless undershirt under her dress just like the little girls had.She looked very cute and liked wearing the outfit.Her being non virgin didnt bother her or us much as it was the communion we focused on!
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Our daughter is 14 and lost her virginity earlier this past summer to a boy she had a strong crush on and we finially had her baptized on October 7th in the fall baptism class.She,along with all the other preteen and teen girls,wore the traditional white knee length,infant style gown with the matching bonnet,white under shirt,cloth diaper,rubberpants,white tights and white mary jane shoes.No one knew that she wasnt virgin and the day went well for her.
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Some brides are non-virgin on their wedding day and they wear their bridal gowns and veils,so i dont see why a 15 year old non virgin girl cant wear the white baptism dress and bonnet! I think that if the girl is truly repentant and sorry for her mistake,then the white outfit is appropriate.The only thing is that by wearing the white outfit,her and her parents are leading the congregation into thinking the girl is virgin,when she is really not and it can leave feelings of guilt on the girls mind.I have known a few teen girls who were baptized as non virgins and wore the full outfit and really no one could tell that they were not virgins.
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To guest in the post above-You are right,it can leave feelings of guilt on the girls minds and also the parents minds as well.The girl(s) have to be sorry and truly repentant and vow not to have sex again untill their wedding night and it must be stressed by her parents!This also happened in our family as well! Our daughter lost her virginity at 15 to a boy she had a strong crush on two months before her sweet 16 birthday.We had her baptized three months after her birthday in the May baptism class with the other preteens and teens.Like all the other girls in her class,we too dressed her in the traditional,white,poofy top of the knees,sleeveless baptism dress and bonnet with the white tights and white shoes and the cloth diaper and rubberpants under the tights with a sleeveless undershirt as her top.It was a solemn event and we focused on her baptism and she made her commitment to god.Only her dad and i knew she wasnt virgin and we really put it out of our minds for the day.
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Our parish is old and strict and all the girls 17 and under being baptized are required to wear the white,puffy,knee length,short sleeve dress and bonnet with the undershirt cloth diaper,plastic pants,tights and white mary jane shoes.It doesnt matter if the girls are virgin or not,they still have to wear the outfit and are considered babies for their baptism.
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Our daughter was baptized at age 17 and she was not a virgin.She wore an ankle length,infant style,baptism gown with a matching bonnet,white tee shirt,disposable diaper with rubberpants over it,white tights and the white shoes.She looked gorgeous in the outfit and it was a special day for her.
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I have talked to a few other moms whose preteen and teen daughters went to purity balls and they told me that they did just the plastic pants with out the diaper under their daughters dresses.They all did the white tights over the plastic pants with the white dresses.
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We have a set of twins,son and daughter who are 14 and in eighth grade.They are both being baptized this comming Easter sunday,April 21 at Easter mass.The son is going to wear a suit and tie and the daughter is going to wear the traditional,white,sleeveless,top of the knees baptism dress with the matching bonnet,white tights and white mary jane shoes.She chose to wear the cloth diaper and found a pair of adult size rubberpants with cute baby prints on them to wear over her diaper and will wear a white teddy as her top.She has tried the outfit on all ready and looks cute in it! The rubberpants showed thru the tights and looked very babyish!She is excited about being baptized and wearing the outfit for the day!
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Now with Easter just 6 days away,our 15 year old daughter has her easter vigil baptism outfit all ready to go! We will be dressing her at the parish,so her puffy white dress is in a garment bag and her bonnet,undershirt,cloth diaper,rubberpants,lace anklets and white shoes are all packed in a diaper bag that we will carry with her dress.There is babypowder,baby lotion,diaper pins and a baby blanket in the diaper bag as well.I am so excited and happy to be able to dress her as a baby and have her like one for the day!
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Our 15 year old daughter just made her First Holy Communion last sunday,april 28th with the 2nd graders.Even tho she is not a virgin,she wanted to wear the communion dress and veil with the lace socks and white shoes.She chose a size 8 pampers diaper with white plastic pants over it and a white tee shirt to wear under her dress to be like the little girls in her class.Her plastic pants fit her somewhat blousy over her pamper and actually crinkled under her dress.She looked so cute and just like the little girls in her class.She even wore the pampers and plastic pants to bed sunday night under her nightgown!
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Last sunday during mass there were two newly adopted sisters,ages 13 and 15,who were baptized as infants during mass.Both girls were dressed in identical white just below the knees,short sleeve,infant style baptism gowns with matching bonnets,lace anklets and white booties on their feet.They each had a moderately thick cloth diaper with white adult size rubberpants on over it with a white tee shirt as their top,under their gowns.Both girls looked cute and very infant like for their baptisms.
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Our daughter is 16 and non virgin and was baptized last christmas eve at 11 pm mass and wore the traditional white poofy knee length,short sleeve baptism dress and bonnet with the white tights and white mary jane shoes.She a white tee shirt as her top,but no diaper,just a pair of white rubberpants on under her tights.No one even suspected that she wasnt virgin and her baptism went well.After we got home,she took her outfit off,but left the rubberpants on and wore them to bed under her pajamas.
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Our daughter was baptized last october at 16 in the fall baptism class,and she is not a virgin,but like all the other preteen and teen girls baptized with her that sunday morning,she wore the traditional white knee length,short sleeve baptism gown and matching bonnet with the tee shirt,cloth diaper,plastic pants,tights and white shoes.She looked very nice and infant like in her outfit and only us and a couple of her friends knew that she wasnt virgin.
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Our non-virgin 16 year old daughter finially made her First Holy Communion with the 7 and 8 year olds back on june 2nd and she wore the poofy knee length,short sleeve communion dress and veil with the lace socks and white mary jane shoes.She bought a package of the Gerber flat cloth diapers in the 24x27 inch size and sewed them together to make her communion diaper and got the white adult size rubberpants to wear over it with a tee shirt as her top. She was just like the little girls in her class and no one even suspected that she wasnt virgin!
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