my girlfriend and i are 16 and her last boyfriend got her pregnant not knowingly. she found out about 5 days ago. the boyfriend ignored her and said that it didn't matter. this is not my child but i'm scared out of my mind, i love her and am trying to help her as much as i can. i have not told my parents but her parents know. she is deciding on wheather or not to get an abortion i don't want her to have the baby because we have our whole lives ahead of us and don't think the baby would be taken care of as much as we like it to be. i don't know what to do im scared please help!!!!!
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Hi Maan,
Right now all you can/should do is support her. That's it. That's what she needs.
Let her make her own decisions about what to do. Don't pressure her. While I can understand your concerns you also need to realize that things may change in YOUR life over the next few years and that your relationship with her may not last. Sorry to say but it happens.
Just be there for her, that's it.
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