I can masturbate with no problems, I achieve orgasm in rough around 10 minutes or so, sometimes less.
I do find that I have lots of trouble achieving orgasm when having intercourse.
There are however times where I would achieve orgasm quickly, but most of the time it is a 30 to 60 minute job for me to finish (just penetration part).
I am wondering, and from just remember on how I did it, that there could be a certain way of thrusting that needs to be done for orgasm to be achieved as opposed to just inserting the penis in and out.
Does the thrusting have to be done in a certain manner that stimulates the head of the penis (as it is the sensitive area)? I find that my shaft does not have any to very little pleasurable feeling. A circular movement as opposed to just in out in out?
Sorry if its a weird question or a confusing one.
I do find that I have lots of trouble achieving orgasm when having intercourse.
There are however times where I would achieve orgasm quickly, but most of the time it is a 30 to 60 minute job for me to finish (just penetration part).
I am wondering, and from just remember on how I did it, that there could be a certain way of thrusting that needs to be done for orgasm to be achieved as opposed to just inserting the penis in and out.
Does the thrusting have to be done in a certain manner that stimulates the head of the penis (as it is the sensitive area)? I find that my shaft does not have any to very little pleasurable feeling. A circular movement as opposed to just in out in out?
Sorry if its a weird question or a confusing one.
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Just to be sure... you are a boy right?
Okay so the first thing you might want to have a look is about your girlfriend's vagina. Maybe she is not enough sexually aroused while you are having sex with her so she's not enough "oily" in order to have a pleasant penetration. Also, do you make your girl come during intercourse? If your answer is yes, then it's already a good start since your woman has some pleasure. If your answer is no, then maybe it's just the way you guys are doing it. Pleasure is not all about physical sensitivity, there is a big psychological aspect behind it. So you might find that some positions are more exciting for you and/or your partner so you should try these positions. Before starting intercourse, do you try to get her aroused, or does she tries to get you aroused? This is a very important aspect before intercourse.
If you already do all these things, then maybe you should consider trying a lube. But I would try it as the last option.
Okay so the first thing you might want to have a look is about your girlfriend's vagina. Maybe she is not enough sexually aroused while you are having sex with her so she's not enough "oily" in order to have a pleasant penetration. Also, do you make your girl come during intercourse? If your answer is yes, then it's already a good start since your woman has some pleasure. If your answer is no, then maybe it's just the way you guys are doing it. Pleasure is not all about physical sensitivity, there is a big psychological aspect behind it. So you might find that some positions are more exciting for you and/or your partner so you should try these positions. Before starting intercourse, do you try to get her aroused, or does she tries to get you aroused? This is a very important aspect before intercourse.
If you already do all these things, then maybe you should consider trying a lube. But I would try it as the last option.
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