I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and it's usually been painful to have sex but only after a certian amount of time, now it doesn't take that long to hurt and I'm wondering why..
The information would be.
I'm petite and he's rather large, not to mention he can last forever and gets frustrated when it begins to hurt because it's happened multiple times.
The feeling consists of... well to me.. [I've never actually felt this before but I suppose.. it might feel like this] it feels like someone pushing a knife inside me.
Usually liquor helps but I really want to have sex without it.
We've tried different positions but he doesn't really enjoy girl on top and that's the only way I would last longer than I would with him in control.
We've tried lube and that doesn't seem to help either.
The information would be.
I'm petite and he's rather large, not to mention he can last forever and gets frustrated when it begins to hurt because it's happened multiple times.
The feeling consists of... well to me.. [I've never actually felt this before but I suppose.. it might feel like this] it feels like someone pushing a knife inside me.
Usually liquor helps but I really want to have sex without it.
We've tried different positions but he doesn't really enjoy girl on top and that's the only way I would last longer than I would with him in control.
We've tried lube and that doesn't seem to help either.
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What did you use for a lubricant? You may need something that's made for this, like KY. A lot of other things that people use like vaseline or oils don't last long enough. If he's circumcised, a lubricant may be essential as there is more friction with the vaginal walls.
Since you say it's better if you're on top, I wonder if it's possible that he's long enough to be hitting your cervix? That would certainly hurt after a while. My wife always let me know when I hit it just once, so we didn't usually have sex in a position where I could go that deep. Personally I loved having her on top. Being a lazy SOB, I could just lay back and enjoy it while she did all the work.
By now (a year) you should be over the normal pains that sometimes happen when you first begin having sex. So you should be able to work out ways that are comfortable for both of you, but it does require co-operation from both parties. It isn't just him doing what he likes and you getting used to it.
Since you say it's better if you're on top, I wonder if it's possible that he's long enough to be hitting your cervix? That would certainly hurt after a while. My wife always let me know when I hit it just once, so we didn't usually have sex in a position where I could go that deep. Personally I loved having her on top. Being a lazy SOB, I could just lay back and enjoy it while she did all the work.
By now (a year) you should be over the normal pains that sometimes happen when you first begin having sex. So you should be able to work out ways that are comfortable for both of you, but it does require co-operation from both parties. It isn't just him doing what he likes and you getting used to it.
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I know this is an older post but I'd like to reply?,
I've had the same problem before with a large penis. We used lube and took it real slow until I got used to his size. My ex, (same guy) and I split for a while but I think we may get back together again, so this will be a concern to me again, too.
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