I'll be checking this topic daily. Too much time has gone by since my last message.
Mystery007, I have. Although.. to be honest, I'm a bit terrified to go further. Let me explain, and let me real with you guys:
My biggest fear out of all of this is HERPES. One year ago, my doctor sent me to the clinic to get tested for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Herpes. I was scared out of mind -- It took me like another three months to muster up the courage to get tested. Seeing "test for herpes" on that paper she gave me turned me into a wuss pretty much instantly. When I got there, I tried everything in my power to get out of that Herpes test. The lady there had to pretty much force me to do it. After getting my blood drawn, I was miserable for two weeks. I was on the verge of crying for days. But..
They never called me and I never followed up with them. I pray to the heavens that that means I'm clean. I had sex with the girl who's caused me this pain in December 2012 and I've had zero breakouts to this day. *knocksonwood* Plus I'm hanging on the fact that the odds are in my favor: I grew up socially awkward. And with this awkwardness comes no sex or interest from women. I haven't had sex for years. The odds of me finally having sex with someone after all of this time and have chosen someone with some type of STD is..
But I couldn't get the aches and slight burning urination out of my mind. Eventually, I went to a clinic and got cleared for gonorrhea and chlamydia. Once again, no definitive answer on Herpes. I can't take a positive diagnosis, especially NOW. Simply because..
I met this amazing woman. In all of my years of living, I have never met such a gorgeous, smart, funny, incredible woman. This month has been one of the greatest months of my life because of her. Like I mentioned, I never had luck with the ladies... but after pretty much changing my personality completely and learning "game" so to speak, I've had many attractive women interested in me.
But this new girl.. The girl that I'm falling for.. We're been dating for about two weeks now, moving along slowly towards sex.
I'm kind of forced to get tested for herpes at this point.. and the thought of being positive is the most terrifying thing I could think of.
It would ruin my life.. that's why I've avoided the testing for so long.
If anyone can offer some encouraging words, I'd appreciate it.
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Hi. I found this forum while searching for a solution to my problem. Since I wasn't able to find any similar case in my language, started to search the net. And the description in the first post seems to sound like my own case. Here is how it stared (please excuse my English):
1. At the end of October 2013 I've been given unprotected blowjob (happens:-) )
2.For unknown reason I started to search the net about STD and HIV. Somewhere I came across information that one drop of HIV positive blood is enough to cause HIV infection and the source of blood can be also a mouth infection. And I got really fricked-out that I might become HIV positive. Well, the fact that it requires long time to be 100% sure that you are OK did not help. I started to panic and the strong stress started to appear!
10 days after oralsex I was at the party where it was cold. The day after strong pain inside my penis appeared. I went to see urologist. Did not tell him what have happened and cold some medicine for two weeks. He assumed I could get some infection. Well the medicine did not really help after that the pain still was there. And of course stress related to HIV idea was growing ....
I had three HIV tests done on 3rd, 4th and 5th week. Also for syphilis - all of them negative. I have talked to couple specialists who tried to calm me down but it didn't help - I kept in mind WHO recommendation which say that test after 12 weeks are 100%. But I had to wait much longer TO BE SURE!!
3. Over the next few weeks there were 3 visits at urologist, had many tests done, all of them negative. Even before the tests I have been given three different antibiotics for all STDs and other bacterias that potentially could cause burning. Over that time the stress (related to HIV) turned into depression, anxiety. Stress was so strong that I felt burns on my arms and back and during that time burning inside penis was even more painfull. I was taking xanax almost every two or three days, and anti-depression medicine. The pain in my penis remained almost unchanged. There were (and still are) better and worse days ...
4. I had HIV test two weeks ago - it is of course negative. Stress is much smaller, but it is still there.
That was to give you some general idea, now the clue.
- few doctors are pointing out that my problem is rather psychological and should be treated with psychotherapy
- I found that when I'm at work the penis burns more than at home (where I remain calm). in the evenings and during the night the problem doesn't (almost) appear
- peeing gives me some pain but it turns out that time of the day has more to do with it
- when I go to the gym, exersise, swet - the burning becomes less intensive
- when I sit a long time - it becomes more intensive
- when I irritate for any reason - within next few minutes it becomes more intensive
- one doctor came up with the idea that nervous system creates different reactions to the stress. in his opinion burning can be example of "psychosomatic disorder"
- it is hard for me to say it in foreign language, but since my "sexual need" was the source of all the stress, maybe "my mind" thought of my penis as of the source "all the evil"
- two weeks ago I stopped taking any pills, but I did not see any influence for the sensitivity
- diet has no influence so far
- stron alcohol - burning is more intensive the next day
More or less I see the relation between the level of burning and what I'm doing and the level of stress. Maybe this will bring some thoughts to some of you and maybe some of us will be able to solve his problem.
Next week I'm going on vacation. Will have some sun, ocean, rest and a lot of walks - away from work, sitting 8hrs/day and nasty winter - I hope it calms me a little. Will see if the burning will decrease a little. I will try to let you know what is the result.
PS. I also signed up to psychologist to talk about the others doctors idea.
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I wonder if I finally figured it out for myself.
I've been here in my apartment, trying to think outside the box. We've all been focused on STDs and things like uretithis and prostatitus, but I dont think anyone has really focused on the
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it's related to a lack of Ejaculation, in my case, after prolonged abstinence from sex it would show up, basically if after a week or so without sex I get sexually aroused and don't ejaculate I get that burning sensation during that day, that's 100% true cause, once penis gets erection it emits some kind of fluid (not sperm), I guess and it causes that burning sensation as it gets in contact during urination.
I don't feel pain when urinating, on the contrary, when I get that burning sensation I feel alleviation when urinating, even if I don't want to urinate, I mean there's no urine left, I still get alleviation when pretend that I urinate (some will know what I mean).
It goes away within 15 minutes, no more than that, that's a time it takes, don't know why, I have it since I was a teenager, have no deseases whatsoever and I'm perfectly healthy.
I'm 100% sure that the cause for it for me is constant abstinence from sex or ejaculation, due to my twisted believes.
BTW since I'm trying to avoid ejaculation I can feel the abundance of semen in my testicles, once I ejaculate it goes like water fall or fontane, and due to excessive amount of "unused" semen sometimes I get mild sensation of sort of pain in one of my testicles and if I touch it, I can feel that it's overcrowded with semen.
I know it sounds really weird, but that's 100% true in my case and cause for burning sensation is abstinence from ejaculation, ejaculating two times a week should make it go away, if you're perfectly healthy and the cause is the same as for me, excessive amount of sex or masturbation can mess this cycle up, so try to reduce it to two times a week for one month and see if it helps.
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Hope u guys got the issue solved. had it once and was chlamydia but I believe this time it could be linked to my long present varicocele that hasnt gone away even after an operation
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Im having this problem too. its haunting. makes me feel like im part of a social experiment or as if maybe i contracted some new form of std. I was reading something earlier that makes a little sense though. someone was saying that she knew someone that had the same problem of the penis burnin and that it could be from a hole in the lower intestine that is causing the bile acid (may not be correct term) to get into the reproductive area. considering the fact that there is a huge possibility that that would be need for surgery it could cause someone to disregard that. but its worth a try. I noticed that with diarrhea its even worse so hey, makes since considering the fact that there's more acid in diarrhea. Should also get checked for diabetes as well just to x that out. im kinda afraid to take that damn test.
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Beland, did you mean that you had similar problems and that it was all in your head/psychosomatic, or that you have hiv and these symptoms were caused by an hiv infection? I have the same thing and now i'm worried.
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Having the same problem too. Burning after urination that can last forever. All tests negative. Is it really in the mind? Did it just fade for anyone here? I see a lot of one time posts...but not many updates. I'm guessing it just faded for people?
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I am Also EXPERIENCING this discomfort most days, this has just started up again after it had calmed down signifigantly for tyhe last 3 years or so. Now its back and seems to be worse, first time i had symptoms I went and got STI tests all were fine as well I went to a urologist and was told it is prostatitis. I am also experiencing pain in my testicals and it seems to flare up after sex or orgasm. I have been through 3 courses of anti biotic treatments and have been tested for UTI, STI/STD's had culture testing done on urine for bacteria, blood work for kidney,liver function, prostate test, and more the funny thing is how can everything be normal or at least coming back
"NORMAL"
I am f__king fed up. Mb this is a new STI, otherwise the only thing i can think of is heavy metals and such in our water and food. As mentioned above I see an alkalynizer treated one fellows symptoms.
I would also like to mention for a couple years now when I have say a larger than normal bowel movement, I sometimes pass a little semen, it IS NOT discharge of ANY other sort, it is semen. I have discussed this with my DR. and he says this is not abnormal.
Going to try the coconut oil, as I have tried everything, bathing in epsom salts, hot hot baths (which seem to help) eating bet*ter, taking saw palm,etto supplements, medication (terazosin) for prostatititis.
FED UP, WISH SOMEONE CARED AND COULD HELP..................................................
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