Im 21 at the moment and with my first steady girlfriend and as we've started getting intimate well things happend . I have severe phimosis with a pretty large overhang even when erect (Im only 5" maximum) while soft i can retract about a quarter of the way but i get hard very quickly and it hurts.. I can smell and see bits of smegma but those arent too bad... its mainly that whenever my girlfriend goes to masturbate me or blow me I ejaculate within seconds. We tried to have sex once but I ejaculated into the condom before I was able to put it in her. what can I do to fix this?