.Hi every one..i am new to this forum..i am lot of confused..and worried..please people do help me...i am worried...well my problem is ..i just by mistake..first time had sex with my boyfriend.. On 10 -08 -2010..i remember..his tool dint go inside..but his precum that too just a drop was on my finger for a minute or less and by mistake it went in my vagina:(i was expecting my periods on 19 same month..but got on 21..then i took 3 pregnancy tests after periods and they all came negative..next month again i was expecting my periods on 20 but got them on 23.. Did 5 tests again and they came negatie..this month i was expecting them on 23 but they have not shown yet..my breasts are sore just like periods..my back is paining..and mucus type thing is coming out as if i am having periods..but no periods..i have done 2 more good pregnancy test and they too are negatie...i am freaking out..too much stressed..wan2 suicide:(as if pregnant i cant arrange abortion or tell my family..i am under age..earlier also my periods got irregular but am scared...only symptom of pregnancy is constipation..please please do help
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Well, for what it's worth, you seem far too sophisticated and rational to be considering such an absurd reaction to such a minor issue.
Minor issue?
Well yes: welcome to life: if you live in the US, UK or Canada, or most european nations, and your parents are not devout kill-your-daughter-for-honour fanatics, then you are wrapped in cotton wool, compared to any woman for the last thousand years or more, so time to take a deep breath, and realise that nature designed you to give life, society wants you to give life (though perhaps not quite as early as you seem determined to do so), and even if you are underage, society models itself on a concerned parent: it doesn't want you to get pregnant before you're financially and emotionally capable of rearing children, but that didn't stop the human race surviving for millions of years up till now.
So, less drama, more reasoned thinking, more reasonable action: safety first: if you are in a family where you consider yourself to be at risk of your life or well-being, go to a hospital or police station. If you are the child of a non-fanatic family, go to a hospital or clinic and get advice and support.
Society didn't know how to tell you please don't get pregnant but if you do come and ask for help, so I'm telling you now: unless there are any other considerations, as noted above, you go to your doctor or hospital and start receiving the advice and support you need.
Minor issue?
Well yes: welcome to life: if you live in the US, UK or Canada, or most european nations, and your parents are not devout kill-your-daughter-for-honour fanatics, then you are wrapped in cotton wool, compared to any woman for the last thousand years or more, so time to take a deep breath, and realise that nature designed you to give life, society wants you to give life (though perhaps not quite as early as you seem determined to do so), and even if you are underage, society models itself on a concerned parent: it doesn't want you to get pregnant before you're financially and emotionally capable of rearing children, but that didn't stop the human race surviving for millions of years up till now.
So, less drama, more reasoned thinking, more reasonable action: safety first: if you are in a family where you consider yourself to be at risk of your life or well-being, go to a hospital or police station. If you are the child of a non-fanatic family, go to a hospital or clinic and get advice and support.
Society didn't know how to tell you please don't get pregnant but if you do come and ask for help, so I'm telling you now: unless there are any other considerations, as noted above, you go to your doctor or hospital and start receiving the advice and support you need.
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