:'( I have been stressing the past few weeks after my girlfriend and dry humped. I had jeans on, and underwear she had on trousers that were sort of nylon and underwear too. I did not cum, I just pre'd a tiny bit, it did not even soak through my underwear, never mind my jeans!. BUT thing is she has been panicin. Her sister panics too which I think has rubbed off onto her. But she gets herself into such a state it is unbelievable. I feel for her becuase I cannot begin to understand what is going on in her head it must be awful to have panic attacks several times a day! I am there for her and she is there for me whenever i freak out about stuff regarding uni. We are both doing a forensics course in the NYU and its very tough. the work load is so stressy right now its unbelioeveable. home life is a wee bit tuff to. She has been complainin about nausea and tiredness. extreme tiredness. Altough it is 4 days until she gets her period. She could be pre menstral and stuff but she says her tummy is swelling a bit. but i thought that was pre menstral water retention? she said that it was only her lower stomach. could this all be a psycho symatic thing? becuase really, I do not think she can be becuase semen needs to get into her vagina and fertisilse her egg. But I ddi not ejaculate so how can she be? I am starting to wonder if she is pregnant or not now and I am starting to freak out and I am not sure as to why I am maybe becuase she is? Can someone put my mind at rest or let me KNOW if there is a possibility? I do not know why she panics like this. But she is seeking help medically she thinks she has an anxiety disorder. She is terrified of being pregnant. But I also mentioned that the nausea and tiredness could be a result of her panicing over nothing? is it nothing? i am not sh**ting myself :S I dont know hwo to help her. she looks so helpless like a mouse!!! I feel so bad right now becuase I feel that I have done this to her!. Help!
Damien Theroux
Damien Theroux
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dude she is not pregnant, you seriously had to of either been naked or had sex. her bloating is probably from her period. unless she has been cheating on you and having sex with someone else.
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Anyone reading this post now, please understand that these people were wearing clothes and sperm can't get through so many layers (come on dude, you were studying forensics!) :-)
thinking her stomach is swelling from pregnancy when she's 4 days from a period is RIDICULOUS. A fetus would be pretty much microscopic. Wouldn't even be as big as a pea for weeks yet. Most gals on their first pregnancy don't "show" even the slightest bump for 2-3 msonths, let alone around 10 days after conception!
Young women (and men) who get this worked up about pregnancy should get a bit more educated about what conception and pregnancy involves. Trust me, it's so much less stressful than this kind of obsession, which isn't uncommon. And they often don't teach us beyond the basic facts in school.
If you are going to obsess then obsess about facts and learn something. You'll be able to protect yourself better and not stress. Anyone suffering from overthinking things like this gal was might benefit from tracking her cycle or something that will make her a little more in touch with her fertility. Most women are only fertile 5-7 days a month and it might be reassuring to know when they are. :-D
thinking her stomach is swelling from pregnancy when she's 4 days from a period is RIDICULOUS. A fetus would be pretty much microscopic. Wouldn't even be as big as a pea for weeks yet. Most gals on their first pregnancy don't "show" even the slightest bump for 2-3 msonths, let alone around 10 days after conception!
Young women (and men) who get this worked up about pregnancy should get a bit more educated about what conception and pregnancy involves. Trust me, it's so much less stressful than this kind of obsession, which isn't uncommon. And they often don't teach us beyond the basic facts in school.
If you are going to obsess then obsess about facts and learn something. You'll be able to protect yourself better and not stress. Anyone suffering from overthinking things like this gal was might benefit from tracking her cycle or something that will make her a little more in touch with her fertility. Most women are only fertile 5-7 days a month and it might be reassuring to know when they are. :-D
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unfortunately for some people it's not that easy. I have this fear and obsession with pregnancy even though i'm a virgin who has educated herself on the subject to try to get rid of the ridiculous fear.
I'm also on depo provera and have been for years so I can't track my periods, they no longer happen at all, but even with this protection things like dry sex still leave me nauseaus and paranoid. I'm also seeking therapy for this issue and I think that's all you can do, I will say though that so far what really helps is just reminding myself that i've felt like this before and nothing happened then, and confronting that I know it's an irrational fear. I still get scared but it seems to only last a day or two instead of a week.
I'm also on depo provera and have been for years so I can't track my periods, they no longer happen at all, but even with this protection things like dry sex still leave me nauseaus and paranoid. I'm also seeking therapy for this issue and I think that's all you can do, I will say though that so far what really helps is just reminding myself that i've felt like this before and nothing happened then, and confronting that I know it's an irrational fear. I still get scared but it seems to only last a day or two instead of a week.
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