Hi guys,
I had a miscarriage in a previous relationship and it was something very personal to me which i never shared with anybody except the father of course. I am happy to keep it this way. However that was five years ago and that relationship ended I am now engaged and expecting my first child. I don't want my current fiancee to know about this miscarriage, I don't know why but it is something I would prefer to remain in the past and I have no desire to bring it up. I am really scared about him finding out if the doctor asks personal questions. I know they will be looking for my medical history when I arrive at my first visit, my fiancee is working that day so he won't be able to attend anyway. I'm wondering if once I get over the first visit will doctors and scan technitians be so personal? I'm struggling with the idea of him finding out and obviously I want him to be present at the appointments. Any help on what I can do to keep this info private would be great !
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Hi guest,
I'm sorry for your loss.
The first visit will be when they discuss your history in most cases. Yes, the miscarriage will be in your history. The technician may ask you about it but probably only along the lines of have you ever had an ultrasound, etc., before.
Check with the doctor. They can always add a note to your file not to disclose this.
As hard as it is you might reconsider not bringing it up with your fiancee. It's in your past, we all have pasts. He loves you and would want to know if something was bothering you.
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