hey im new to this forum ive had a problem for as long as i can remember but im tired of it bugging me and i want to do something about it so ive been searching around on the internet for my options, my problem is ive never been able to retract my foreskin properly i can pull it back when unerect but not all the way and the frenulum looks like its pulled so tight that it could snap at any moment and feels a little uncomfortable, as for erect there is not a hope in hell of me pulling it back once i have an erection i have been in a happy relationship for 3 years now and we have sex with no problems at all ive never experienced pain only what i imagine to be a massive loss of enjoyment for us both, putting a condom on kills all feeling as its like wearing a thick fleshy condom and then the rubber over the top of that!
ive tried stretching techniques but havent experienced much help with my problem, ive researched frenuloplasty a few times but still abit unsure of the surgery i see something about splitting the skin down the middle but my problem seems to be the skin of my frenulum is too short so would this help me?
like i say i experience no pain at all and have a happy sex life i just feel like myself and my girlfriend would benefit so much more by me getting this problem sorted out as i feel somewhat 'alien' for having this problem and nobody to talk to about it
thanks %-)
ive tried stretching techniques but havent experienced much help with my problem, ive researched frenuloplasty a few times but still abit unsure of the surgery i see something about splitting the skin down the middle but my problem seems to be the skin of my frenulum is too short so would this help me?
like i say i experience no pain at all and have a happy sex life i just feel like myself and my girlfriend would benefit so much more by me getting this problem sorted out as i feel somewhat 'alien' for having this problem and nobody to talk to about it
thanks %-)
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Hi there are no easy way to sorted out these problem although the easiest way is to masturbate a lot and move the foreskin very hard with every stroke so that you can put a lot of tension on the frenulum so that it can tear of this is not painful and recover very soon.There will be a bit o bleeding and must be clean with Dettel and water the bleeding will stop soon.after that you can put on a antiseptic ointment you can buy at your local chemist.
Alternative 2 is to see your GP but i can assure you he will circumcise you.The decision is yours. You do not state if the foreskin itself is to small to retract if this is the case they can make a cut in it but there wil be a bad mark on your penis for the rest of your life.
Alternative 2 is to see your GP but i can assure you he will circumcise you.The decision is yours. You do not state if the foreskin itself is to small to retract if this is the case they can make a cut in it but there wil be a bad mark on your penis for the rest of your life.
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If your foreskin is tight, that can be stretched but I don't think the frenulum will stretch, at least mine didn't. Mine just tore when I began having sex regularly after I got married.
The first time it tore I just let it heal by itself and found it was no better than before because the ends just went right back together. The next time it happened I put a piece of toilet paper in the wound so the ends could not go back together, then rolled the foreskin back up. I replaced the TP several times and it healed in a day or two. It was not as short after that and I did the same thing the next time it tore. I think I probably tore it four or five times before it stopped happening. After that it was as if I had never had a frenulum at all. I can pull my foreskin all the way down the shaft so that the inner skin is covering the whole shaft and the tip is at the bottom of the shaft.
It happened to me during sex so I didn't feel it until afterward. I don't know if I would have the cahonas to give it a good yank while masturbating to tear it on purpose but I also don't have a whole lot of faith in having a doctor cut it and expecting satisfactory results. As I said mine is so loose it goes all the way back in complete comfort now and that is what I would expect the doctor to do for me and I don't trust them to do it that well.
You have the right idea about splitting down the middle. I don't see how that will make anything longer either.
If you do go to a doctor, remember it's YOUR penis and the doctor has no right to do anything to it that you don't want done. Make sure you know exactly what he plans on doing and make sure he knows exactly what you expect.
I think you are right to feel you and your partner are both missing a lot of enjoyment. I can tell you from my experience it is soooo pleasurable to have a foreskin that rolls ALL the way back easily and comfortably. The foreskin is meant to act as a sleeve inside her vagina so that your penis goes in and out of it with the head coming all the way out when you are fully inserted. This gives her the feeling of your head sliding in and out without having it scraping against the walls of her vagina. My wife says it is much nicer that way. We have tried it with me holding my foreskin back so it's like being circumcised and she says that's not as comfortable. Also the inner side of the foreskin has stretch responsive nerves that are activated as it reaches it's point of being stretched at the end of your thrust. That causes you to push a little harder to finish the thrust which feels really good for you and her.
So I highly recommend getting that foreskin working like it's supposed to. She will love it and so will you.
The first time it tore I just let it heal by itself and found it was no better than before because the ends just went right back together. The next time it happened I put a piece of toilet paper in the wound so the ends could not go back together, then rolled the foreskin back up. I replaced the TP several times and it healed in a day or two. It was not as short after that and I did the same thing the next time it tore. I think I probably tore it four or five times before it stopped happening. After that it was as if I had never had a frenulum at all. I can pull my foreskin all the way down the shaft so that the inner skin is covering the whole shaft and the tip is at the bottom of the shaft.
It happened to me during sex so I didn't feel it until afterward. I don't know if I would have the cahonas to give it a good yank while masturbating to tear it on purpose but I also don't have a whole lot of faith in having a doctor cut it and expecting satisfactory results. As I said mine is so loose it goes all the way back in complete comfort now and that is what I would expect the doctor to do for me and I don't trust them to do it that well.
You have the right idea about splitting down the middle. I don't see how that will make anything longer either.
If you do go to a doctor, remember it's YOUR penis and the doctor has no right to do anything to it that you don't want done. Make sure you know exactly what he plans on doing and make sure he knows exactly what you expect.
I think you are right to feel you and your partner are both missing a lot of enjoyment. I can tell you from my experience it is soooo pleasurable to have a foreskin that rolls ALL the way back easily and comfortably. The foreskin is meant to act as a sleeve inside her vagina so that your penis goes in and out of it with the head coming all the way out when you are fully inserted. This gives her the feeling of your head sliding in and out without having it scraping against the walls of her vagina. My wife says it is much nicer that way. We have tried it with me holding my foreskin back so it's like being circumcised and she says that's not as comfortable. Also the inner side of the foreskin has stretch responsive nerves that are activated as it reaches it's point of being stretched at the end of your thrust. That causes you to push a little harder to finish the thrust which feels really good for you and her.
So I highly recommend getting that foreskin working like it's supposed to. She will love it and so will you.
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