I am 13 yrs old, my boyfriend is 14, we have been going out for 2 years and i really love him and want 2 have sex with him, but I am worried about it hurting and what my mum will say about it, she would be against the idea so I don't want to speak to her because I really want to lose my virginity to him. I am worried about all the blood etc. and I know I am ready, but will everyone else see it that way? :$
At your age you should absolutely not have sex. You may feel as if you are ready, but take it from someone who knows, at your age you are not prepared for the mental and emotional side effects of sex. Are you ready to deal with birth control, condoms, the possibility of pregnancy, talking to your doctor about your sex life, finding a location for sex, STDs, your parents finding out and not trusting you, or your classmates finding out and branding you a w****? All these are things you must consider and will have to deal with if you have sex. At some point your parents are sure to find out, and especially at your age, your boyfriend is certain to tell his friends if you have sex, and then your entire reputation is ruined. On top of all of this, there are feelings and emotions that go along with sex that, at your age, you are certainly not prepared for. You should definately wait to have sex.
dont do it ull regret it
YOU ARE TO YOUNG FOR SEX! You shouldn't even think about it unless you want to get pregnant at your age.
wait till ur at least sixteen, if u cant even drive yet sex is probably not a good idea.
Please don't do it. You will certainly regret it. You're still young and things change and he might not be there for you later on. You might get diseases, get pregnant or even get dumped after he's done with you. Save your virginity for the "man" you love, not the "boy" that still doesn't know what he wants to be when he grows up.
Hi there.
Look all these comments about "don't do it" and "your too young" aren't the kind of answers you need and are definatly not the people you should be talking to. I know your not that up for asking your mum but that is the best thing you can do. Explain to her how you are feeling and I'm sure she'll give you the answers you need. I spoke to my mum when I wanted to loose my virginity as I too had been with my boyfriend for 2 years and felt I was ready. She was very supportive as she knew one day it was going to happen. She gave me some advice and told me about the different types of contreception available. If anything don't listen to people telling you to do it or not to do it. Talk to your mum she'll understand.
Hope this helped :)
Look all these comments about "don't do it" and "your too young" aren't the kind of answers you need and are definatly not the people you should be talking to. I know your not that up for asking your mum but that is the best thing you can do. Explain to her how you are feeling and I'm sure she'll give you the answers you need. I spoke to my mum when I wanted to loose my virginity as I too had been with my boyfriend for 2 years and felt I was ready. She was very supportive as she knew one day it was going to happen. She gave me some advice and told me about the different types of contreception available. If anything don't listen to people telling you to do it or not to do it. Talk to your mum she'll understand.
Hope this helped :)
I am 13 me and my bf have sex almost every night I would do what you want my mom was really mad at me but she got over it cuz I told her that I was going to do what I want I would wait but is does hurt at first then they say u bleed I didn't thought guess I lucky
hell no girl u a s***
your mom must be insane. sex at 13. everynight. you are insane. if i knew where you lived i would call the police. and im not freking kidding.
Good for you doing what you want hope that you don't regret your decision.
Good for you doing what you want hope that you don't regret your decision and have fun.
Im 18 and I f**k my bf every night and know im pregnant with twins a boy and girl
NO! there are many conseques to that action think pregnancy do you really wanna take the chance at being 13 and pregnant is it worth it??? Wait if he loves you he will wait. Sex is a step too far for a 13 year older! Your virginity is something you cant get back and youll most likely regret it please just wait that's the best thing you can do your 13 you shouldn't be having sexual activity. At least wait till your 16. Maybe even 18. Just wait.