hi, my gf and i have been sexually active for a while, usually once in 3 months odd...anyways, intercourse is EXTREMELY painful. its not that im big, im average but penetration hurts like hell and recently, iv noticed that i seems like her inner labia have shrunken, in that the length is only like 4cm maximum and yes i know it stretchs during arousal and intercourse, but is it possible to get smaller, reducing the size of the entrance to her vagina? on the flip side, it seems her outer labia have enlargened and its only if i "open it up" will i get to her inner labia. is this normal or is something amiss here? pls help!