I am so sad that I have lost my baby at 5.5 weeks. I had problems with my progesterone and sadly have just experienced the trauma of a miscarriage. What makes this worse is that my boyfriend left me as I bled. How can I get over all of this? I am distraught.
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Hi, sorry for your loss. Getting over something like that isn't going happen over night. I would reccommend that you allow your self time to grieve, time to cry. Know that everything happens for a reason. Miscarriages can occur like natural selection, only the strong survive, meaning that ultimately there may have been something that would have kept the baby from living a normal life, such as down syndrome or a heart defect. Or it could have been that it isn't your fate to start a family with that boyfriend, who clearly showed how much he really doesn't care. This could be good for you in the end, now you have a little guardian angel looking out for you, who wants you to find the right person to be with who will commit to you and start a family with at a better time. Or maybe it just gives your boyfriend time to grow up. If you continue to feel overwhelmed see a Dr. Sometimes prescription medications such as Zoloft can be used to help someone through a difficult time, but that would be something for a Dr to decide. Best of luck to you
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Thank you for your kind words. I still haven't heard from him. He was happy to have a baby but couldn't deal with me when I was emotional. Said he'd had two days of grief and had had enough. I just feel like I lost my baby and boyfriend in one day
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