I don't really know where to start... So two weeks ago I had sex, my sig other went into me without protection and was in there less than 5 seconds. He then put on a condom and finished. When we were done, I was really wet and he said I was that way the whole time. So first question: is it normal to be super lubricated while having sex?
When we had sex I had been off of my period for about two weeks, so I should be starting next week but I am really starting to freak out because he stuck himself in unprotected, even though it wasn't long at all and I have read forums where people say it is unlikely that you would get preg. SO should I be freaking out?
On top of all of that, I am going to the doc. this week for an exam and to get birth control. I get stressed easily over doc. visits, I was going to see about getting an IUD but I have read so many bad things about them I am not sure what to do.
In addition to that, work absolutely sucks! I find it hard to get up and go every day. I work with a bunch of men and my boss is an ass. I am going on vacation in 4 days which should be wonderful, but I am freaking out about the plane ride ( I have never been on a plane before). I am also stressed about packing and cleaning the house before I leave. My grandmother is going with me and my grandpa has alzheimers (spelling?) and is just an out-right as****e. She is telling him the morning we are leaving because he would try to do something to stop her if he knew before hand, I am just worried he might do something to hurt her when we get back.
AND.... My stomach has been in an knot and I have had back lower back pains and sore breasts, which seem consistant with my period. I went through a week of being in a constant bitchy mood which is also consistant with my period getting ready to start. I am so anal about everything that I have taken two preg. tests even though they prob wouldn't show anything yet. I spend yesturday crying and have lost my appetite because of the bloated knot feeling in my stomach.
I know my life seems like a freaking mess, but it usually isn't like this.
Basically, what are the chances of me being preg? Is all of this stress causing my body to get into knots and not feel normal? Could all of this stress post pone my period? Please someone give me advice.
Thank You!
When we had sex I had been off of my period for about two weeks, so I should be starting next week but I am really starting to freak out because he stuck himself in unprotected, even though it wasn't long at all and I have read forums where people say it is unlikely that you would get preg. SO should I be freaking out?
On top of all of that, I am going to the doc. this week for an exam and to get birth control. I get stressed easily over doc. visits, I was going to see about getting an IUD but I have read so many bad things about them I am not sure what to do.
In addition to that, work absolutely sucks! I find it hard to get up and go every day. I work with a bunch of men and my boss is an ass. I am going on vacation in 4 days which should be wonderful, but I am freaking out about the plane ride ( I have never been on a plane before). I am also stressed about packing and cleaning the house before I leave. My grandmother is going with me and my grandpa has alzheimers (spelling?) and is just an out-right as****e. She is telling him the morning we are leaving because he would try to do something to stop her if he knew before hand, I am just worried he might do something to hurt her when we get back.
AND.... My stomach has been in an knot and I have had back lower back pains and sore breasts, which seem consistant with my period. I went through a week of being in a constant bitchy mood which is also consistant with my period getting ready to start. I am so anal about everything that I have taken two preg. tests even though they prob wouldn't show anything yet. I spend yesturday crying and have lost my appetite because of the bloated knot feeling in my stomach.
I know my life seems like a freaking mess, but it usually isn't like this.
Basically, what are the chances of me being preg? Is all of this stress causing my body to get into knots and not feel normal? Could all of this stress post pone my period? Please someone give me advice.
Thank You!
You need to calm down and pace yourself. Here's what I think. You say you were very wet while having sex 2 weeks after your period. You may have been ovulating. It's never a good idea to have unprotected sex for 1 second or 20 minutes if you are not ttc. There is such a thing as precum. It isn't rare but it's very uncommon to get pregnant from precum. I wouldn't worry about bc you are not likely to be pregnant. And if you are, it'll be ok. It's scary at first but then your maternal instinct kicks in and you want nothing more than the baby. You should wait till the day of your missed period and test for pregnancy. And you should also take the stress of bc it WILL delay your period and cause you more stress.