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(New to this particular site, so sorry if I make a mistake posting this).

I'm a 15 yr old female virgin, and I'm honestly not sure how to feel about it. I'm not naive, I know people in my school and grade have sex; a girl in my class even openly talked about "f*****g" her boyfriend and she threw a condom at someone's head. I masturbate, I read, I know how sex works.

What I'm still not sure about is if my status as a virgin is a good thing or a bad thing. I am usually not ashamed of my virginity, nor am I overly critical of those in my grade who aren't virgins. 

But I feel caught between a rock and a hard place, because...

  1.  If you have sex in my school, people either are indifferent or s*** shame you, but if you're a virgin you're made fun of for that as well

2. Though I am not very religious, I still kind of feel that obligation to remain a virgin until I am married (right now my philosophy is if it feels right it'll happen), and I don't want to have sex right now, namely because I'm afraid it would be spread around and that I cannot trust any guy to keep it quiet.

Is it so wrong that I am a virgin? The girl I talked about earlier who threw a condom asked if I was, as well as the other people at my table. Though she may have been trying to mock me, I felt no reason to lie. Had I lied and said I wasn't, she would not have believed me and/or she would have likely spread it around and would try to slander me.

 

 

 

 

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Hey Lizzie. Okay so I'm a 16year old guy and I honestly think that's okay. Sure sex may be a "big" part of teenagers life's today but I honestly don't think not having it is wrong. Sex is meant to be a special thing and everyone's first time should be with the right person. There's no point of losing your virginity to someone you'll probably never see again! I think that you sticking up for yourself and remaining truthful is awesome. I mean so what people may make fun of you hear in the but I just simply came to tell you NOT TO GIVE IN. It's your life at the end of the day anyway right?

Anyway I hope this helped you. I say Teenage virgin Good
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Hi Lizzie
You being a virgin and knowing your not ready to have sex and wanting to wait until your married is a great thing.
You should be very proud of yourself for the choices you are making :)
What others in your school do shouldn't influence your decisions.
I think it is wonderful how you are approaching this and doing what you feel is best for you.

Well-done Lizzie very impressive.
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