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i would like to know the after affects after i have sex for the third time ...(lost my virginity the first time)

okay, every time me and my boyfriend have sex a day after, i start bleeding. i would like to know what causes it ..? could it be because it was close to the time of the month and he made it come quicker then the normal date?
There are no after effects.

AS for your bleeding it could be because he was rought and caused some rips and tears in your vagina.
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LadyD3
You are having your HYMEN & VAGINA torn each time you are having intercourse, take a some time off, and it will be OK, this will also happen for a while, when you have something larger placed inside.
Your age is one factor, one other is if he is having rough sex with you. try the position with you on top, so you will control the depth, and speed.
RT
and please don't for get some style of birth control, condoms, the pill or jelly and a diaphram. so we will not see you post "I am pregnant. how do I tell my mom?"
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Your hymen can only be torn ONCE.
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Actually, wrath, I think she may have identified this herself.
If the hymen is incompletely torn, or has heavier blood vessels in it, the first few times COULD produce some additional bleeding.

I wouldn't jump to any conclusions with this...either that he's being too rough, or that she can't have a hymen that is incompletely torn.

I would think that a doctor's exam might be in order.
Plus, she may know better just how close to her period she was.

And, I agree, normally there is no after effects beyond the original incident.
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