Okay so here's the deal, I am 13y girl and I have had a crush on this guy in my neighborhood, (for the last 3 1/2 years) he actually asked me out last year and I said no (because my parents don't want me (or any of my (8) siblings) to have a boy/girlfriend) an well he asked me again last Tuesday and I said that I would need to think about it and to ask me again in a couple days, which will be soon and I don't have an answer yet. I mean I want to say yes but I FEEL like I should say no. 'cuz if the parents don't agree, its not really a healthy relationship. So I am just asking everybody, girl or boy I don't care, I just want to know other people's opinions on this.