I was diagnossed with hsv1 in 1/08 and developed cold sores on my lips. Since this time, I have had sexual relations with a man who tested negative for both hsv 1 and 2. However, I developed symptoms since having sexual intercourse with him. Is it possible that I could have transferred hsv 1 to him during oral sex, and he give it back to me genitally through intercourse? He said he was not worried about me having genital herpes and proceeded to provide oral sex despite my symptoms of redness, irritation, and pain. He then kissed me. The next day I had small blisters on my gums and throat, and he developed his first herpes blister on lip. He then transferred blisters onto my nipple after this. What is going on?!