I had noticed that my fiance's labia are, for lack of a better term, beat up looking. Meaning they hang out profusely. She had opened up to me that she's slept with over 40 men in her past. She's been sexually active since 14 and now she's 25. I had asked her why her labia hung out so much, she didn't know, so we want to know if her physical aspects, meaning the way it looks, has anything to do with her multiple partners and the ammount of sex she's had? or is it just that her's is that way naturally?
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Don´t ever think of telling your fiance that her labia is protruding because the ammount of sex. You´d been doing a terrible injustice!!!
The size of vaginal lips has nothing to do with sex. Vaginal lips comes in all forms, sizes or colors and some can hang out profusely just at teenages, when the girl is even virgin.
Enjoy this natural gift and give her pleasure because you are a lucky man having a girl well endowed like her.
The size of vaginal lips has nothing to do with sex. Vaginal lips comes in all forms, sizes or colors and some can hang out profusely just at teenages, when the girl is even virgin.
Enjoy this natural gift and give her pleasure because you are a lucky man having a girl well endowed like her.
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If your fiance feels that her vaginal area is unattractive, she could consider cosmetic surgery. Just as in breast augmentation or rhinoplasty (nose jobs), she will be given a portfolio with photos of different forms/sizes of vaginas; she will be able to choose a style that she feels would complement her body. BUT, if you are the only one in the relationship that feels uncomfortable with your fiance's vaginal labia size, then it's something you should discuss before you tie-the-knot, especially if she is against cosmetic surgery. You might think it's something you will be able to tolerate or grow to appreciate, but it could happen the other way around; you might become repulsed by the look of her vaginal area and you may lose sexual interest in her. No body is perfect, but a woman always wants to feel that she is appealing to her partner. Would you feel comfortable knowing that your lady thought your penis was too skinny or that it was different compared to other penis' she has seen?
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I have a inner lip that hangs out almost 2 inches. I hate the way it looks, but i've done my research and learned they can be small and tiny or be very hangy and loose. You need to accept this as her partner, if you can't that's slightly odd, but you can't break up with someone over the size of their vagina. Also, I can count the amount of men i've had sex with on two hands. My vagina lips have always been the same.
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one side of my labia hang out a little between my outter lips. if you were to look at it you might think it was my clitoris but it isn't. my lips started to grow like this as soon as i hit purberty, so when i had sex for the first time i was nervous cause of the way it looked, but now i don't care because i have seen some UGLY penis' as well so women aren't the only one. Besides, all those guys who slept with your girl could of had the best sex with her compared to someone with small "normal lips" not because of the way it looked but because of the way she worked it. it doesn't matter.
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Consider the following for piece of mind: Lets say for arguments sake your wife only had one sexual partner before she met you. She could have had slept with this person 40+ times. Thus the number of sexual partners in and of itself would not be dispositive. Rather the number of sexual encounters would be more indicative if in fact this vaginal lip issue were in face caused by "excessive" sexual intercourse. The appearance of her vagina seems to be a manifestation of your unhappiness with her promiscuous past. Unless you yourself have been promiscuous the relationship seems to be on shaky footing. Good luck.
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i have a very beautiful labia lips. they may different in size and my hole my even be stretched but i sure can make my husband have an ulitmate orgasm. he feels my walls and i have had lots of sex im one turned on women. but my husband in in love with my lips
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i see where you're coming from in your comparison, but it doesn't really work with this situation. the same penis 100+ times will do about the same amount of damage it did the first and second time, but one NEW penis that's DIFFERENT can be a CAT five on the vaginal hurrican scale. So the forty different partners could have played a part seeing as how one of them could have been part horse in the lower region of his body.
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Don't know about other guys, but how many times a woman has had sex is no big issue to me. But having tons of partners matters way more and is not the same. Ever had sex with a virgin? It's quite challenging. Yes, having a lot of sex makes a difference. She's probably had a variety of penises inside her. My high school sweetheart's vagina got bigger over the year we were together. I will admit I didn't go easy on her. But, man,..........40+ guys over 11 yrs?!?! That's a lot!! That could mean 70, 80, 100 even! That's like saying it was more than 40.
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Well I like loose lips that hang out inches long. So much that I enjoy when my wife has sex with other men that are far more bigger than I like 10 to 13 inches long and thick as hell. Now she has had quite a few men since we have been married. Something in the ball park range of 120 or so. Sometimes even 10 or more in one night. All I'm saying is I find it extremely sexy that her lips hang down far.
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None of this is anything to worry about. Alot of the vaginas you see in pornography and on the internet have had plastic surgery, in the same way that women's bum holes really arent that perfectly light colour in real life, and not every man is hung like a horse. The worst thing in this situation you could do is tell your fiance you dont like her vagina, no woman wants to hear that just the same as no man wants to be told his penis in ugly. Sex isnt a porn film it doesnt matter if you're not 'perfect' you should be perfect to the person your with and accept each other as they are and make them feel beautiful. Ladies if your hot. Then you're hot, no ones going to inspecting every inch!
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I'm sure ill be called a pig for saying this but remember its just my opinion...I dated a girl a while ago and she had "roast beef curtains" she was the first girl I was intimate with so I guess it was a long while ago...anyways at the time I loved her but I was never sure why she had a rooster gobbler looking set of lips...hers were natural she was a virgin at the time...and we were both young...again at the time I really liked her...however now I'm older and have experienced bodies everywhere from 6s to a few solid 10s. And its a lot like a car when ur starting out most kids are happy with an old rust bucket just to have that experience...however as we get older we don't settle we want a reliable not heavly used good looking vehicle...I can say the same for woman/vaginas I would love to have that 10 everytime that tight perfectly blush pink one that knows every choreographed step durring sex where when I squeeze out it squeezes back like it already knows what to do...however I'm not going to tell every 9 in my bed to pit her clothes back on and leave...ill gladly take those high 7s and up and sometimes it takes that high 7 low 8 to really appreciate that 10 again however back to the point as I enjoy the good ones and know that perfect ones do exist in contrast to what the other user said...that I couldn't be happy tied down to a 6 with wizard sleeves...I'm not a big fan of labiaplasties but looks do matter I spend lots of time exercising to stay fit as I'm not blessed with a great metabolism like some...but I get tired of ppl saying looks aren't as important as personality a lot of ur looks depend on ur ambition to improve them just like a bad personality I try hard to be at my best both physically and personality wise so I don't want to be with someone whose fat bc they won't exercise or w.e. so what I'm trying to say is if you're going to be serious with this girl ask yourself do u care now or will u ever about the long lips or the forty plus guys or anything else...if its all ok with u it doesn't matter why its the way it is...if its not ok are u guys both willing to try and change it...if its too big of a deal and there's no way shell look at options to change it then it might be time to look elsewhere
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