What is wrong with me...afraid to have sex

Broody405240951 over a year ago

Had an abortion 10 months ago and I'm experiencing really scary symptoms. I recently began thinking of sex as undesirable. I cry when my boyfriend ejaculates especially inside me. I recently got the implanon b/c I didn't trust myself enough not to try to get pregnant again. pregnant women, families, babies, commercials and anything to do with children makes me cry. I feel so alone

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MissH241547 over a year ago

Ive never had an abortion or any children as I'm still really young but I just think I had to comment and tell you that you are not alone there loads of women feeling the same during sex you'll be fine. Did you want the abortion or was it not your choice?if you ever wanna talk just message me:).<3

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HighlyFavored-Love241065 over a year ago

Honey, you shouldn't have to feel this way. To me, it sounds absolutely normal, due to the fact that you had an abortion not even to long ago. Sex will indeed feel so unpleasurable, uncomfortable, and scary because your mind isn't all into it, like how it should be.

Take things really really slow, do things to get your mind off of all your problems and try to have a positive attitude about even the most hardest obstacles:)

Things seem rough right now, my love, but be there for your boyfriend and be there ESPECIALLY for yourself...go back to when things were all good and it felt like there were no problems...to the happy times:)

Just know that you're not alone...especially when going through something like this.

Goodluck & Godbless<3

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Broody405240951 over a year ago

Thank you all so much for your support. although this has been a tough time knowing that I am not alone and won't be misjudged makes me feel a bit better. thank you

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