I had An abortion A couple weeks ago... I had always been against them but my boyfriend and I live in a 2 bedroom apt with our son who is 2 , I work full time ( he just go laid off his job ) so we don't have any extra money at the end of the month. I thought we were going to keep this baby but when I was 8 weeks the stress about all the negatives got to me and we just started fighting all the time. To where he moved out... Were stil together and are working things out now that the stress is over but I'm very depressed and regret this decision. I cry every day and don't know where to go or what to do. I wanted that baby but I didn't think we could make it. Now I really want a baby with him.
I know I made a bad decision... Is it wrong of me to have a baby so soon after the abortion ?
I know I made a bad decision... Is it wrong of me to have a baby so soon after the abortion ?
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Wrong? Not at all.
However, I'd ask you to consider your motives. Are all the stress factors still there? Is it something that you can assure yourself won't overwhelm you to the point of arguing again? If nothing has changed and last time there was so much anger you nearly lost your relationship, I'd wonder why there was a sudden desire to get pregnant again.
That said, you need to sit down with your partner and talk about it. If you both think it's something you want to pursue, do it! If, after the conversation, you find that maybe you both think it would be better to wait a bit then there is nothing wrong with that either :-)
However, I'd ask you to consider your motives. Are all the stress factors still there? Is it something that you can assure yourself won't overwhelm you to the point of arguing again? If nothing has changed and last time there was so much anger you nearly lost your relationship, I'd wonder why there was a sudden desire to get pregnant again.
That said, you need to sit down with your partner and talk about it. If you both think it's something you want to pursue, do it! If, after the conversation, you find that maybe you both think it would be better to wait a bit then there is nothing wrong with that either :-)
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