masurbation questions (mostly about anal masturbation)

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 61

hello im a 16 year old girl and iv started masturbating for a few months now.

1. i was wondering if anal masturbation is safe to do? lately i have been putting 1 or 2 fingers in my butt and it feels really pleasurbale and then i put the same fingers in my vagina, is this safe or am i at a high risk of getting an infection or somting?

2. i dont cover my fingers with anything. i also dont use lubercation when i finger my butt, but it seems i have enough self lubercation coming from my vagina that im able to use it for my butt. do u think that is enough or should i still use some sort of other lubercation?

3. also if ineed to use lubercation will lotion, shampoo, moisturizer or saliva work instead of actual lubercation or is this not safe either....? i dont think i can buy actual lubercation because im ussualy with my parents when i go to the store so they will want to know why im buying it.

4. another question i have is if sticking things in my vagina and butt such as a pen, marker, the end of a brush, ect are safe to use or will it somehow cause damage?

5. one last question i have is that i have been experncing some brown vaginal discharge that isnt my period and i dont think its blood, it is also just a small amout when it happens and i just notice it on my underwear. could this be caused because of a infection or do u think i shuldnt be worried about this at all?

please answer my questions i have many concerns Sad

i dont want to hurt myself in any way while i do this. im scared to ask my mom these questions or a doctor because its embarrasing for me, please help! thanks

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 61

^ plz help Sad

jmp60 · Newbie Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1

Hello Carol,

First of all, anal stimulation is not wrong and it is much better that you are experimenting with your body this way at your age so you know exactly what you like and don't like before engaging sexually with a partner.

Nevertheless, I would not recommend at all taking your fingers from your anus and putting them into your vagina because there are all kinds of bacterias that (believe it or not) live in your feces. Putting your fingers into your vagina after they have been in your anus can transfer some of this bacteria and cause a urinary tract infection or something else.

As far as lubrication, it is not imperative that you use KY Jelly but a lubrication will certainly make it much more comfortable and pleasurable. I would advise you not to use shampoo because it might burn but something else such as vaseline should be perfectly alright. Another possible lubricant could be hand or skin lotion but use something all natural. Shopping with Mom for hand or skin lotion does not seem out of the ordinary to me at all.

I would be very careful with what you put in your anus. You should not stimulate yourself with pens or markers. Unfortunately, the safest thing in this case really is a sex toy such as a dildo or vibrator.

As far as the discharge that you were experiencing, this may be just a tiny bit of feces that mixed with the natural lubrication produced by your vagina and leaked out afterwards. However, if you are at all experiencing pain when you urinate, then you need to tell your mom so that you can go to the doctor and be tested and treated for a urinary tract infection (don't worry, its just a simple antibiotic in pill form). Also, this type of infection is common in women and will not in any way reveal to your parents that you are exploring yourself sexually.

I hope this helps.

cuckoohead · Newbie Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 92 Location: Boston,M.A.

don't use shampoo or any type of soaps cause that dries the skin if u masturbate with it lotion is good though

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 61

ok thanks for ur answers.....is cocoa butter hand/body lotion okay to use for lube ya think?

cuckoohead · Newbie Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 92 Location: Boston,M.A.

yup any lotion is good as long as u have no body allergies to the ingredients but that is doubtful

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redstripe · Newbie Joined: 29 Feb 2008 Posts: 5

would the end of a tooth brush be an alright thing to use with vasoline?

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Codie22m · Newbie Joined: 02 May 2008 Posts: 4

Unfortunately, there are a lot of misconseptions and ingnorent about the anus.
It's really fun (and enjoyable!) to play with it, but, as a previous poster said, nothing that had been in the anus should be past to other orifices.

Home appliances are not suitable for use as sex toys - the rectum curves at some point, so you will want something flexible that will bend (at least part of the way).

Also, vaseline or any other material that is not water-based (such as baby oil) is not a suitable lubricant. These products (oil, butter. vaseline) dissolve very slowly in your body and may irritate your anus. As a side note, they destroy latex upon contact - so they can't be used with condoms.

The best bet would be buying any of the water-based lubricants (KY Jelly can be found in any pharmacy nowdays) and an appropriate sex toy. If you can't buy a sex toy, I've built several over the years, so you can contact me on Yahoo (codie22m at yahoo) for instructions.

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