Hey I'm 14 and I really want to finger myself, but I do t know how to and how to cum? And what can u insert into ur p***y beside ur finger and toy( can't afford one)?
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I know you are older now, and hope you have found some answers, and others here have suggestions about things that you can put inside yourself, but as for cumming...
No pun intended, but if you stick with it, these things come in time. The brain is really good at figuring out what feels good, and losing what doesn't work so well. Sex feels good for a reason; we are SUPPOSED to like it. So, like anything that we are driven to do again and again, we LEARN how to make it work better over time. You might consider shifting your focus away from your clitoris though, and onto somewhere else beyond the obvious -- nipples and breasts, belly, inner thighs, maybe sucking your finger. Have you slipped a finger or two inside yourself to massage your G-Spot? It is the rough-feeling place on the upper inside of your vagina, just inside the opening, kind of "behind" your clitoris. It sort of feels like the roof of your mouth. This rough spot is meant to excite both you and your lover (Nature is assuming it's a male here) by stimulating the coronal ridge of his penis to bring him to orgasm (to ejaculate his sperm) inside you. But you can massage it yourself to lovely, intense effect, and bring yourself to orgasm from this alone. In concert with your clit and nipples etc, you should be able to get there on a regular basis.
As for squirting, not all females ejaculate to that degree or in that way. If your body IS capable of that, it will likely happen as you achieve your orgasm. That fluid serves to lubricate the area (and the penis that might be entering you) to make things go a little smoother. But it is not absolutely necessary, as the vagina manages to lubricate itself without that, and not doing so is not a failing or a shortcoming in any way.
But remember, your orgasm is not just driven by your clit (or your nipples, your belly button, your anus, your mouth -- whatever). In short, the physical sensations you create with your fingers etc., are only a PART of what goes into your orgasm. Most of it is actually in your head. Your BRAIN, your MIND really drives your body when it comes to orgasms. The brain takes the sensations you create and mixes them with memories, fantasies, images and other stuff in your mind to begin the process that culminates in orgasm. A lot has been written about that, here and elsewhere, but it bears repeating. Orgasm is a delicate dance you do with yourself. Lots of things go into making it happen, including strong feelings of love for a partner. Lots of things can also get in the way -- subconscious fear of punishment, thoughts of being "bad", etc., even desires for a particular, absent partner can distract you or detract from your pleasure. You may need to give yourself PERMISSION -- the freedom -- to have and enjoy the orgasm(s) you deserve.
So, keep exploring the sensations your body can create, and Good Luck!
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Your hymen might not be broken, so as of now, rub hard, think about your bf's d rubbing you and enjoyy!!
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