I am 19 years old and i am still a virgin, however 3 days ago i felt a pain on the top of my vagina i didnt worry too much about it until 2 days after getting that pain it swelled up and was red i was in a lot of pain and it was only made worse by my job that is very active. all i did was worry about it those 2 days and was too embarrassed to ask my mother or friends. then on today the third day i went to the bathroom and noticed something on my underwear that seemed like puss and blood and realized the pain wasn't as bad.i also did not have my period lately but am due soon. i only shave my bikini line so i know it;s not ingrown hair because its on the vagina itself. so i went on the internet and found out other people had the same problem, but all their stories seemed the same that they either hav sex or just got over their periods. i need help i've never had this happen before and am worried it won't go away and if it does what if it comes back i can't go to the gyno because i already had a physical exam this yr and idk if i can make another one. will someone help ease my mind and give me suggestions to make it better