Hello, I am 20 year old female. I started having sex at 16. I havnt had sex with many people but multiple times with each person. I am now with a new boyfriend and I want this to END. I cannot get to climax to save my life. I get close and I feel like I have to pee and I pull a hand away or I stop or whatever. The fear of having to pee kills me. I thought that maybe it wasnt pee so many times I have masterbated in my empty tub to see if it was pee or not. I looked up and it said that "cum" tastes sweet and doesnt have a pee odor and it is clear not yellow. I keep trying and every time I pee. I also read somewhere that if your about to climax you cannot pee. I for some reason can. Please help if you can give me some tips. I would greatly appreciate it. I would like to have my first big O with my new boyfriend.
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Omg , i thought i was the only one with this problem! Im 21 and im going through the same thing. Although i lost my virginity 2 years aqo to the same guy im with now and i have never experienced an orgasim with him! When i masturbate , just when it starts to feel amazing and i start to shake i begin to have the urge to pee so i would think that it is the feeling im supposed to have so i continue to play with myself and i start to pee instead of cum! So i figured that maybe it was because i didnt pee before i began masturbating so the next time i made sure i went to the bathroom before i began , but when i started to shake i started to pee. This happens everytime. I need to know if this is just a phase and when will it stop because i really want to cum! I feel like im broken , i wnna ask my doctor but im scared ! HELP !
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Both of you are not peeing.. .you are squirters. Its perfectly normal and my doctor has also told me that many women in there early to mid 20s cum my often still smell like urine and sometimes even been kinda salty. Because your urine and cum do infact come from the urethra.... There may sometimes be a little pee in your cum
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I'm 20 and I orgasim multiple time when my boyfriend and I have sex. But the first time I squirted it was while masturbating. It's true your pee and cum come from the urethra. Like guys cum ours is bound to be a Lil salty. I have heard eating healthier and drinking plenty of water can help
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to all you ladies having this problem stop worrying......peeing for women during orgasm is common. If the cum is a small amount of milky fluid, it likely comes from the paraurethral glands inside the urethra. If it’s a cup, it’s probably pee. Many times, it may be a little bit of both. But don't stress out about peeing on yourself. Put a towel under you and surrender to the experience. I'm a very experienced guy and seen and love this sh*t a lot.....so stop holding back,relax and release.......
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im going through the exact same thing!! im a 20 year old female, whenever i masterbate,it feels good but it manifests then as the urge to pee and when i try to “release” i just pee- no orgasm- and the feeling goes away. even when i pee before, its the same thing just less liquid. did u guys find any success?
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The amount of miss information surrounding this topic is sad. To break things down:
-Both males and females have their bladder fill up during sexual stimulation. After achieving orgasm, the body is then set to pee as to prevent getting a urinary tract infection since the uretha is exposed to a "foreign object".
-Males can not pee during orgasm as the uretha is used as the duct for semen to be released from. Females can pee during orgasm as the uretha is not used during sexual stimulation.
-When a female "squirts", it is the loss of control of the bladder during orgasm that causes slight urine leakage. Think when someone accidently wets themself when laughing or caughing. It's the same principle. The tensing of muscles from the coughing, laughing, and/or orgasm puts pressure on the bladder.
-This is totally normal and nothing to be concerned about. Many women "squirt" during orgasm. If you start to feel like you might need to pee during sexual stimulation, it may be best to keep a towel underneath you or do it in a place where it is okay if things get wet just incase you do "squirt".
-To clarify, squirting is actually peeing, please don't push the false narrative that it isn't.
-Both males and females have their bladder fill up during sexual stimulation. After achieving orgasm, the body is then set to pee as to prevent getting a urinary tract infection since the uretha is exposed to a "foreign object".
-Males can not pee during orgasm as the uretha is used as the duct for semen to be released from. Females can pee during orgasm as the uretha is not used during sexual stimulation.
-When a female "squirts", it is the loss of control of the bladder during orgasm that causes slight urine leakage. Think when someone accidently wets themself when laughing or caughing. It's the same principle. The tensing of muscles from the coughing, laughing, and/or orgasm puts pressure on the bladder.
-This is totally normal and nothing to be concerned about. Many women "squirt" during orgasm. If you start to feel like you might need to pee during sexual stimulation, it may be best to keep a towel underneath you or do it in a place where it is okay if things get wet just incase you do "squirt".
-To clarify, squirting is actually peeing, please don't push the false narrative that it isn't.
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