Alright, my problem is that I don't find being fingered enjoyable, sex wasn't as good as I hear it is, I can't wear tampons, I don't know if I'm an unusual case or not.
Sex was ok, but I didn't feel much, &it wasn't exactly pleasureful like most people say it is. I know that the main reason it was wonderful is because I care for this guy very deeply, &he does for me as well.
I really enjoyed it though. I just didn't get an orgasm or anything.
I'm not sure if my "cheery" was even popped.
I didn't bleed, it didn't hurt. (I do masterbate though)
His "goods" don't seem small to me. I don't really care about that much though.
Ohh, also, I can't wear tampons. I pass out if I put them in... like seconds after I do, even though I really couldn't care less about the thought of wearing them. It's not that I mind putting it in, it's just like it triggers something and knocks me out. Scary stuff. &I'm wondering if my boyfriends penis was longer, if that might trigger that too.
The thought scares me.
I'm not sure if that has anything to do with why fingers don't feel good in me.
They literally feel "not good". Like it barely hurts, but any guy that has every tried to finger me.. it just doesn't feel good. AT ALL. So I don't let them finger.. just play around down there a bit.
How come I can't get much pleasure from any guys?
My boyfriend is better than the others I've kinda messed around with in the past, but he can't do it either. I just want to be able to experience that with him.
&Trust me, I've given myself many before. Could it be because I masterbate?
Sex was ok, but I didn't feel much, &it wasn't exactly pleasureful like most people say it is. I know that the main reason it was wonderful is because I care for this guy very deeply, &he does for me as well.
I really enjoyed it though. I just didn't get an orgasm or anything.
I'm not sure if my "cheery" was even popped.
I didn't bleed, it didn't hurt. (I do masterbate though)
His "goods" don't seem small to me. I don't really care about that much though.
Ohh, also, I can't wear tampons. I pass out if I put them in... like seconds after I do, even though I really couldn't care less about the thought of wearing them. It's not that I mind putting it in, it's just like it triggers something and knocks me out. Scary stuff. &I'm wondering if my boyfriends penis was longer, if that might trigger that too.
The thought scares me.
I'm not sure if that has anything to do with why fingers don't feel good in me.
They literally feel "not good". Like it barely hurts, but any guy that has every tried to finger me.. it just doesn't feel good. AT ALL. So I don't let them finger.. just play around down there a bit.
How come I can't get much pleasure from any guys?
My boyfriend is better than the others I've kinda messed around with in the past, but he can't do it either. I just want to be able to experience that with him.
&Trust me, I've given myself many before. Could it be because I masterbate?
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well yeah maybe you should try to cut down on masterbating, i used to do it often with my hands then i moved on to a vibrator and then like a couple months after using the vibrator i tried using my hands again and it just didnt feel as good anymore, i think after doing for so long you build up a resistance to it, so i stopped masterbating and after that when my bf fingered me it felt better (not a whole lot better, but slightly better)
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hi jk,
one way i know that works for sexual pleasuring is to get bf to suck your nipples, and play with your clitoris for around 20 mins.
there are nerve connections, between your nipples and your clitoris, and with continued stimulation of nipples and clitoris together for as long as it takes, should bring youn to your climax.
if it works for you, anf bf becomes experienced at it , then when you are really close to orgasm, he can penetrate, and in 5 mins , you will probably both orgasm together.
if you cant stand the penetration, just let him bring you over the top, then he can watch as your vaginal muscles contract rythmically as you orgasm. he will enjoy watching you as you have your climax.
I hope your sexual experience improves.
one way i know that works for sexual pleasuring is to get bf to suck your nipples, and play with your clitoris for around 20 mins.
there are nerve connections, between your nipples and your clitoris, and with continued stimulation of nipples and clitoris together for as long as it takes, should bring youn to your climax.
if it works for you, anf bf becomes experienced at it , then when you are really close to orgasm, he can penetrate, and in 5 mins , you will probably both orgasm together.
if you cant stand the penetration, just let him bring you over the top, then he can watch as your vaginal muscles contract rythmically as you orgasm. he will enjoy watching you as you have your climax.
I hope your sexual experience improves.
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there are some medical issues pertaining to what you just said and my best advice is speak with your obxyn to see if perhaps you have one of the disorders that could cause this, my friend had something like that and was given some meds that helped.
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