well iv been having this prob with my self ..the thing is 4 years ago i was with this guy and we were making out and it wa getting hotter so i wanted to go all the way but the thing is when the guy was going to go in me he couldn't in away my body was blocking him out side.knowing that i was a virgin so i was thinking it was that..but it happen the same later on...so the thing is not im with some other guy that i really like.and i really want to sleep with him and i get this feeling that my body will reject him as well ...so is it normal or is it just my consciousness telling me not 2 do it...what should i do?
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it sounds like you are stressing out a bit because you know it will be your first time for sex. it can be very much in the mind.
there is also a condition known as Vaginismus whre the vaginal opening closes up as soon as a man tries to penetrate.
one thing that may help you relax is if you engage in other sexual activity , but not intercourse.
if you let bf, partner suck your nipples and play with your clitoris for 10 to 20 mins, many women find that this stimulation is enough to bring them to their climax.
This way you get to have your orgasm, and your vaginal muscles will clench rythmically 5 or 6 times as you hit your peak. so that way you get the pleasure, the build up and the release, but you have not been penetrated, and there is no risk of pregnancy either.
Your partner will need his release of his tension after that.
there is also a condition known as Vaginismus whre the vaginal opening closes up as soon as a man tries to penetrate.
one thing that may help you relax is if you engage in other sexual activity , but not intercourse.
if you let bf, partner suck your nipples and play with your clitoris for 10 to 20 mins, many women find that this stimulation is enough to bring them to their climax.
This way you get to have your orgasm, and your vaginal muscles will clench rythmically 5 or 6 times as you hit your peak. so that way you get the pleasure, the build up and the release, but you have not been penetrated, and there is no risk of pregnancy either.
Your partner will need his release of his tension after that.
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