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im 12 and i started watching lesbian porn, and it turned me on, i dont like watching straight porn that much. Only because i dont like to see someone ejaculating in someones mouth. or someone sucking a penis and they you know, ejaculate like i said up there. thats pretty much it. it kinda grosses me out a little. i find men attractive and ive had a crush on the same boy for a while now. ive even had dreams that like we went to prom and stuff haha. ive never had a crush on a girl before. nor kissed one, dated one, touched, or anything. no physical contact, or emotional feeling. The only thing that concerns me is that i fantasize about women. i dont fantasize about people i know sometimes. i make people up in my head. and kiss them and stuff. Last night i questioned my sexuality. i think it was just because i finished watching you know. Ok here we go again. breasts and vaginas turn me on. but i do like boys. i think theyre cute, romantic, and great. ive never considered or wanted to go out with a girl, i plan on never dating one or having emotion feeling for one (i dont think its wrong and im not against it) but still i really dont want to be a lesbian or bi. i think im more attracted to how women look, then actually wanting to be with one because ive never wanted to have a actual relationship with a female or anything. can someone tell me what sexuality i am? and what i should do to stop thinking about this stuff? i just want to focus on males. i dont want to think about women. AGAIN. i dont want a relatonship with one or anything its just i just like to think of what i see in videos because it turns me on. 
no body can tell you who u are...thy best i can tell u is to experiment... kiss a girl and guy and see whih one u like best and when u get older experiment more if ur atill confused
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I am a 26 yr old heterosexual female who has been in a relationship with a man for 8 years and I watch lesbian porn all the time. You can't help what turns you on. I think it's normal.
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im 12 and i had the same problem. boyfriend but les porn is so hot. im bi. mabey you are like me. im bi, but i like girls a bit more!
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Don't worry! As you are growing up you go through different stages and like different things then unlike them. I'm 13, I'm straight, but I watch lesbian porn. It's something different. Most straight people do watch gay/lesbian porn because it is something very different. I just think your bi-curious. As you grow up youll know for sure what your sexualality is. message me x
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I'm under 16, but above 13, and I'm just wondering if I'm bi. I like lesbian porn, and I have fantasies about other girls. When girls walk by, I admit I check out their breasts and booty, I might stare just a bit and imagine touching them if they're nice. I think I would date/do things with a girl if I had the chance, but I feel like I'm a little young, not for the dating part but to be experimenting physically. I'm not sure if I've really crushed on a girl before. I might have--I get butterflies when I talk to certain girls, some are my friends, some aren't. I get excited when I'm near some of my more "edgy" friends (sometimes we mess around and do sexual things, but we never take our clothes of or really touch each other seriously). Whenever my friends and I do things like that, I wish they would actually happen. I constantly wish there was someone else that was bi or lesbian that I could experiment with, but I'm pretty sure all my friends are straight. Girls just seem so perfect physically, and to me they seem more... I don't know, balanced or something, both physically and emotionally. Guys... not so much. To me they seem awkward physically, and emotionally I don't think I've ever really been attracted to one. I've had several boyfriends before, but I haven't felt any sort if spark with any if them. Straight porn is OK, but not as good as lesbian. I'm perfectly OK with being bi, but I'm just wondering if I really am or not. Your thoughts? I know I really don't need a label on my sexual orientation yet, but I'm curious. I've had these sort if thoughts for a year or so, and I'm just curious to what other people think. I feel like my orientation is one big grey area, and even that I might lean a little towards girls. I just want more opinions.
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I am bi too at least i think i am i do the same thing u do i have a boyfriend but les porn turns me on its wierd but i have fantasised about girls

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The reason why you get turned on by watching lesbian porn is because you tend to feel what you are seeing Since there Is a woman it makes us easier to feel every touch.

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emmmm i have a question im a girl and im 13. how should i massage you tho?
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You're at the age when sex and breast sizes become your concern. I was already wearing a 42-size bra when I was your age and had already been wearing one for three years by then. Some of my friends had 44 sizes and larger when they were your age. Maybe because some girls your age and older are more petite than you. Some girls that are younger than you might be more busty than you as well.
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Wow. You're so young! But I was about 12 as well when I started experimenting with my sexuality so that's totally normal. I'm pansexual, but I also know quite few supposedly straight women who are into lesbian porn. I know u want to think you're not bi but u just might be. U don't have to be romantically interested in a chic to be bi. In my humble opinion if you're sexually turned on by females as well, you're likely bi whether u wanna be or not. But only u know how u truly feel and time will tell what the truth of your attraction may be. Sexuality is a huge, huge grey area, not just black and white like some ppl portray it to be or want it to be. For instance, like I said I'm pansexual but the details are a bit more complicated. I'm slightly more sexually turned on by women (like 60/40) yet way, way more romantically attracted to men. But I've also been turned on by transgender people as well, and I know I would never choose my partner based on biological sex or whether or not they're non binary, etc. Hearts not parts, as I say. Lol
But yes, you're fine. Don't stress it, enjoy it, be gentle with yourself and remember u have the key to your sexuality, no one else. Some ppl just don't realize it because of what they want or don't want to be. Hope that helps. Sorry such a late response!

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Sexuality is indeed a massive grey area. Time will tell if you're bi or lesbian. By the way you're speaking I doubt you're straight, but only you know that. And you don't have to know right now, nor do u ever have to put a label on your sexuality. Not one that's anyone else's business anyway. I'm pansexual, 39, and didn't know I was pansexual until I was about 35. I knew I was "bi" since about 13 or 14, but I didn't even know what pansexual was. When I found out it all clicked. I knew that's the more correct term for my sexuality.
So give it time and just do what u are comfortable with
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