Am I suppose to be shaved or not?

It's a purely personal preference. However, in today's world where one can easily see nude women in porn or frontal nudity in some movies where women are pretty neatly trimmed or almost shaved, it's hard not to be influenced by this. Most older women do not shave or even trim. It's a personal preference. I'm sure most men like it, though.

It all depends on personal preference, then what your partner likes. But in today's society most ment truly do prefer no hair at all, because it just seems alot cleaner and they don't have to wory about hair getting in the way, as some men even shave too, so it usually depends on ur partner. Shave in case