Anal Sex post Anal fissure

After you've had an anal fissure operation should you refrain totally from having anal sex again?

Hi,really not recommended,I also had chronic anal fissure which came and went(escuse the pun),after some weeks with no pain I tried some anal play again but the pain stopped me in my tracks,this went off and on for some months which was very disappointing and extremely painful,after a few visits to the docs I was advised I needed an operation which I had,a very unpleasant and painful affair,that was a month ago,im just waiting and hoping that I get a full recovery and go back to my normal fun,if you have a fissure make sure to let it heal with absolutely no insertions of any kind,buy some poo softening drinks to be drank at least once a day,change your diet to a more healthy way,
that can really help in the healing process,try Bepanthen'its a skin healing cream that can help,let it heal for at least 3 months and more.good luck

You should consider buying something called the "Raw Pup" from Fort Troff. It's like a sleeve that you can put into your rectum and it eliminates the friction from penetration.

If your problem is thin mucous membranes, you could give this a try! But it still will stretch your hole out, so be careful with re-opening old fissures.

I had anal warts back in the 90s for three years. I went through the same things as you. I was in my late 20s at that time. Now I am 47, and am having issues with reoccurring anal fissures. My CRS and PCP have all told me that my tears are superficial. I do believe because you're still young that you are able to resume having anal sex. But unlike me I am older and as we get older our skin loses its elasticity according to what all of my doctors have told me. I do blame the anal warts and all the surgeries over a course of 3-1/2 years causing my anal to tear more easily. Now when I go to the bathroom number 2 and have a hard bowel movement I tear. It's very depressing living with this condition. But because my anal area has already been weaken by so many procedures done down there, I am thinking to myself if any doctor tells you that there isn't any scarring they are stupid. There has to be scarring from cryotherpay and cauterization especially having it done repeatedly. I don't want to scare you but as you get older and if you notice that you develop anal fissures with or without anal sex just remember there may be a reason why its weaker down there. That's from my own experience. And there is no way that I am getting the surgery for anal fissures. My skin is already too scarred and I don't want more problems. Like my CRS told me, I may just have to learn to live with this condition for the rest of my life. If I had known what I know now, I would have used more protection back then. :(

Not a fissure, but I had a persistent blastula, just inside my anus. It required a year and a half of three surgeries to finally get it cured. I refrained from anal for two years. I can have anal again just fine.

I am a bottom guy and have been with my partner for 19 years now. I had an anal fissure two years ago, and I thought I would never be able to have anal sex again. I was very sad because it is important to me and my partner likes it very much. It took about 10 months for the fissure to heal. I kept the area clean and used my little finger to massage inside and put a little "Aquaphor" (Eucerin) cream on the area (and inside) every day to keep it moist (stil use it every day).....but with great care. I put Then after 10 months I felt confident of putting a larger finger in after my daily shower, with plenty of lubricant. After about 16 months I started using small but plugs, slowly using bigger ones, and then after about 18 months I had anal sex, we were very careful again lots of lubricant....and now after 2 years, I feel much more confident and we enjoy anal sex almost 100% like before. There have been a few downs when one of the scars I feel inside opened a little....but we simply waited a couple of weeks and started again....and it does get better, it's slow but all will be well...I hope this helps....

Sorry, I forgot to mention something really important. To make sure I go to the toilet on a daily basis and it's not hard which could open the fissure again I use this product every day. It's really helped a lot for the future to heal. The doctor told me to use Plantaben and says I can use it every day for the rest of my life with no problem. It is a natural product and you don't feel any secondary effects at all.

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I have had sex after having a fissure a few months ago...it is not as pleasurable a before..the affected area still feels a burning sensation during penetration which does not feel comfortable at all..sometimes it does but most times it's not...i used 0.2 GTA cream which has healed up the fissure..however i dont feel much sexual stimulation in mt anus as before...not sure why...but i really dont feel like having anal sex much..and when i do..its not a anticipated as before...i really wanna get back to when i enjoyed anal sex but don't know how to regain the feeling of enjoying the sex...

I am suffering from anal fissure since last 2 months, and Since then me and my gay partner are not having anal sex as it is not healing. Can smsomeone advice what surgery should I go through and will my anal sex life would be back to normal or not?

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