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for the past couple of weeks i have been sneaking out the house while grounded to go to parties etc, as i am only 16 i am not allowed to drink alcohol, but i have been coming home drunk, my parents went mad and said that they were worried about me drinking and if i sneaked out again they would have no option but to lock me in my bedroom to keep me safe as well as a punishment, 2 days ago i ignored them and sneaked out to a party, i got drunk and returned home at 2am my parents said they have had enough and the next day they locked me in my room, i have been LOCKED IN all day and my parents have said i will spend all of tomorrow locked in  my room as a punishment, i will be let out for christmas but after that i will be locked up , my parents have said that both my uncle and antie died very early because of alcohol and they dont want me to go the same way, my parents know i have lots of parties to go to after christmas with alcohol so thats why the are going to keep me locked in for my own safety as well as a punishment, i know my parents mean well for me but i HATE being locked in my room its HORRIBLE advice please from honest parents ?

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It's normal to want to see your friends at 16 ,the most important thing in your life as a teenager it's normal to see your friends and have a drink ,who knows you might meet someone you like ,your parents are just trying to protect you ,but locking you in your room is a bit drastic ,try to compromise and ask them if you can drink with them ,when they see you not getting drunk ,they might you see your friends,hope that helps Josh
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the reason my parents lock me in my room is because i sneak out when my parents backs are turned, i must admit they did warn me that unless i stopped sneaking out they would have no option but to lock me in, i thought they were bluffing, i HATE being locked in why does punishment have to be so misreable ?
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Well it's natural to want to go out, especially at this time of year ,and it's wrong that you feel miserable ,just tell them not to lock you in ,and soon they will forgive you ,but it's difficult when I was 16 i was always out on my motorbike ,and I was always locked out because I was LATE,so ended up crashing at my girlfriend's house ,try to reach a compromise ,cos it's bad you feel miserable
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i have said sorry to my parents and they say i am forgiven, but because i am only 16 and its not legel to drink in england until the age of 18 my parents tried to get me to promise not to drink, but i DONT do promishes not at my age, and i DONT do groundings its for losers, my older 19 year old goody two shoes sister says my attitude stinks and i deserve to be locked in my room and punished what do you think ?
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Its cool you've apologised to your parents ,having unhelpful comments from your older sister isn't helpful,but you know your own mind and got your friends ,so do what's best for you ,your not a loser,you've got a great future ahead of you ,do what pleases you

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Hi Lucy ,just try to find a happy compromise do what you want but still make your parents happy,get drunk with your friends ,maybe get a boyfriend then one day move in with him ,and wave your problems goodbye x
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I live in Alaska,I sneak out sometimes to see my boyfriend ,my parents don't let me see him but he is so cool ,I liking riding with him
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