OK HERES A TOUGH ONE......
I GOT THIS FRIEND WHOS A LESBIAN , SHE HAS A SON AND WHICH THE FATHER AND HER DID NOT HAVE SEX TO CONCIEVE HIM.....THEY ARE NOT 2GETHER HE WAS A SPERM DONOR BASICALLY...ANYWAY A FEW DAYS BEFORE I MET HIM iD BEEN HANGING OUT WITH MY FRIEND AND GETTING TO KNOW HER MORE AND ONE NIGHT WE WENT TO THE CLUB AND I WAS A LIL DRUNK AND I SAID TO HER MATE THAT MAYBE ( MY FRIEND) COULD BE THE ONE TO MAKE ME GAY...THAT NIGHT WE DIDNT HAVE SEX OR ANYTHING WE JUST TALKED AND ID STAY OVER AT HER PLACE IN HER BED BUT WE WOULD JUST CUDDLE , I TRUST HER ENOUGH TO BE IN THAT SITUATION AND BE ABLE 2 HUG HER LIKE THAT..THEN A FEW DAYS LATER I MEET HER SONS FATHER..I IMMEDIATLY LIKED THEM BOTH BUT WASNT SURE WHAT TO DO , I AM STRAIGHT BUT WASNT SURE SO I TOLD MY FRIEND THAT I HAD FEELINGS FOR HER SONS FATHER AND SHE TOLD ME TO GO FOR IT ...
SOOO I DID , I BEGAN TO TALK TO HIM AND GET TO KNOW HIM MORE AND WE EVENTUALLY HAD SEX (TWICE) UNTIL ONE NIGHT I GOT ABSOLUTELY DRUNK AT MY M8S HOUSE , THE GUY WAS THERE AND I WENT ABSOLUTELY MENTAL OVER NOTHING ! I DONT REMEMBER WHAT I DID BUT I WAS CALLING HIM A c**t AND TO HIS KNOWLEDGE AND MY FRIENDS , I WENT INTO HER ROOM TO TALK TO HER AND INSTEAD OF TALKING I KISSED HER AND THEN TRIED TO PUT MY HAND DOWN HER PANTS !! , I DO NOT REMEMBER TRYING TO DO THAT I DONT EVEN KNOW IF THATS TRUE BUT HE NOW CONSIDERS IT AS CHEATING , WE WERNT GOING OUT AS BF/GF HE NEVER ASKED ME OUT !! ...HE DOESNT TRUST ME ANYMORE AND I REALLY DO LIKE HIM , I NEVER MENT TO HURT HIM AND HE WONT LISTEN , HE SAID ' WE WILL NEVER BE 2GETHER AND SOMETIMES U HAVE TO BE CRUEL TO BE KIND...
I AM HURT BY THIS AS HE WONT GIVE ME A 2ND CHANCE TO PROVE THAT IM NOT A LIAR OR A CHEATER I DONT KNOW WHY I DID WHAT I DID , I ALSO TOLD HIM I WANTED TO SEE IF THERE WERE FEELINGS THERE FOR HER STILL AFTER I MET HIM , HE DIDNT LISTEN
PLEASE HELP !!!
I GOT THIS FRIEND WHOS A LESBIAN , SHE HAS A SON AND WHICH THE FATHER AND HER DID NOT HAVE SEX TO CONCIEVE HIM.....THEY ARE NOT 2GETHER HE WAS A SPERM DONOR BASICALLY...ANYWAY A FEW DAYS BEFORE I MET HIM iD BEEN HANGING OUT WITH MY FRIEND AND GETTING TO KNOW HER MORE AND ONE NIGHT WE WENT TO THE CLUB AND I WAS A LIL DRUNK AND I SAID TO HER MATE THAT MAYBE ( MY FRIEND) COULD BE THE ONE TO MAKE ME GAY...THAT NIGHT WE DIDNT HAVE SEX OR ANYTHING WE JUST TALKED AND ID STAY OVER AT HER PLACE IN HER BED BUT WE WOULD JUST CUDDLE , I TRUST HER ENOUGH TO BE IN THAT SITUATION AND BE ABLE 2 HUG HER LIKE THAT..THEN A FEW DAYS LATER I MEET HER SONS FATHER..I IMMEDIATLY LIKED THEM BOTH BUT WASNT SURE WHAT TO DO , I AM STRAIGHT BUT WASNT SURE SO I TOLD MY FRIEND THAT I HAD FEELINGS FOR HER SONS FATHER AND SHE TOLD ME TO GO FOR IT ...
SOOO I DID , I BEGAN TO TALK TO HIM AND GET TO KNOW HIM MORE AND WE EVENTUALLY HAD SEX (TWICE) UNTIL ONE NIGHT I GOT ABSOLUTELY DRUNK AT MY M8S HOUSE , THE GUY WAS THERE AND I WENT ABSOLUTELY MENTAL OVER NOTHING ! I DONT REMEMBER WHAT I DID BUT I WAS CALLING HIM A c**t AND TO HIS KNOWLEDGE AND MY FRIENDS , I WENT INTO HER ROOM TO TALK TO HER AND INSTEAD OF TALKING I KISSED HER AND THEN TRIED TO PUT MY HAND DOWN HER PANTS !! , I DO NOT REMEMBER TRYING TO DO THAT I DONT EVEN KNOW IF THATS TRUE BUT HE NOW CONSIDERS IT AS CHEATING , WE WERNT GOING OUT AS BF/GF HE NEVER ASKED ME OUT !! ...HE DOESNT TRUST ME ANYMORE AND I REALLY DO LIKE HIM , I NEVER MENT TO HURT HIM AND HE WONT LISTEN , HE SAID ' WE WILL NEVER BE 2GETHER AND SOMETIMES U HAVE TO BE CRUEL TO BE KIND...
I AM HURT BY THIS AS HE WONT GIVE ME A 2ND CHANCE TO PROVE THAT IM NOT A LIAR OR A CHEATER I DONT KNOW WHY I DID WHAT I DID , I ALSO TOLD HIM I WANTED TO SEE IF THERE WERE FEELINGS THERE FOR HER STILL AFTER I MET HIM , HE DIDNT LISTEN
PLEASE HELP !!!
I'm confused.
I think you're a straight female, but you never state your gender.
I think you're saying that you got drunk and mouthed off, hurt the man, and now he won't trust you.
Plus, you have feelings or would like to try a lesbian affair with a woman, or a specific woman, but don't want this to threaten the man or your friends, right?
Whew!
I think you need to get your priorities straight. Who are you interested in pursuing? Do you even know?
The only way to convince him that you didn't mean to hurt him is to show him. Actions speak louder than words, but "once bitten, twice shy."
Sounds like he's not interested in being involved with someone who drinks so much that she doesn't remember being cruel to him.
I don't blame him.
Only time might help heal t his, but it'll be a long time.
In the meantime, it sounds like you want some girl sex. Is that right?
Just want do you want us to tell you? That it is alright? That you can have both...him and her? That you should shower them both with gifts?
Sorry, I'm no expert in complicated relationships, and you've worked yourself into a double bind.
You need to sort out what you really want.
PS: You never mentioned your age, your gender, or your goals.
I think you're a straight female, but you never state your gender.
I think you're saying that you got drunk and mouthed off, hurt the man, and now he won't trust you.
Plus, you have feelings or would like to try a lesbian affair with a woman, or a specific woman, but don't want this to threaten the man or your friends, right?
Whew!
I think you need to get your priorities straight. Who are you interested in pursuing? Do you even know?
The only way to convince him that you didn't mean to hurt him is to show him. Actions speak louder than words, but "once bitten, twice shy."
Sounds like he's not interested in being involved with someone who drinks so much that she doesn't remember being cruel to him.
I don't blame him.
Only time might help heal t his, but it'll be a long time.
In the meantime, it sounds like you want some girl sex. Is that right?
Just want do you want us to tell you? That it is alright? That you can have both...him and her? That you should shower them both with gifts?
Sorry, I'm no expert in complicated relationships, and you've worked yourself into a double bind.
You need to sort out what you really want.
PS: You never mentioned your age, your gender, or your goals.