Ok, so me and my boyfriend almost had sex. What i mean by almost is that he was hard up to the point of him putting on the comdom and then he went soft. So we tried again and it happened again! Itts frustrating and it made me cry!
Is this normal? Is something wrong with me or him? Please help!
Is this normal? Is something wrong with me or him? Please help!
It's cause he stopped to put the condom on. Nothing is wrong with either of you. Stopping right in the middle of arousal can cause a guy to go soft. the only way to stop it is to keep him aroused by stroking him or sucking him while he is prepping to put the condom on. You can't leave too much time in between.
That's not normal and thats a problem its not because he isn't aroused and i kno f or a fact that if i can keep going then he most defiantly can as well.
It happened to me and my boyfriend too!!!
I felt the same way you did when it happened too. We couldn't do it for a while. Then last time we tried (a couple of days back) he finally managed to keep it hard enough to put the condom on, but still the sex wasn't good.
Anyway for your case, maybe he was pressured or something... give it another shot.
I felt the same way you did when it happened too. We couldn't do it for a while. Then last time we tried (a couple of days back) he finally managed to keep it hard enough to put the condom on, but still the sex wasn't good.
Anyway for your case, maybe he was pressured or something... give it another shot.
This is called performance anxiety. Basically he feels so much pressure to pleasure you, as soon as he starts to put on the condom, he goes soft. He sees your reaction and the next time he is under even more pressure. Don't blame it on the condom, and always use them, but instead he may need a little help..not Viagra, they have too many side effects, but try a herbal capsule like Maxman Ultimate or Stallion Sex Pills. One of those and as soon as you turn him on, he will give you the erection you need until you orgasm a couple of times.