i think you need to wait till you married cuz i got a girlfriend and me and her are already ready for sex but i want to wait for the appropriate time only because i respect her and its a good idea to live with the person first before doing it like fully doing it but me and her are both in love and i make sure as soon as we have sex the first time no protection is necessary for we are planning to have a baby :-P :-D
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I have a word of advice though--it is a good idea to get tested before you have sex if you are not going to use protection. There are worse things than getting pregnant! I think that's a good investment of your time if you haven't already considered it. What do you think?
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me and my girlfriend had sex just yesterday on Sept 30, she just had her period the weekend before so like 3 days before we had sex, the condom split. so i am a bit worried the thing is i went pee like 4 times before we had sex like throughout the day and day before. So my questions is what are the chances of this girl getting pregnant!! i am very worried
PLEASE help!
PLEASE help!
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To clear up any confusion...
Pre-cum does not contain sperm, it is simply the penis' way of flushing out the urethra before the sperm emerges (picture it as a self cleaning mechanism, it cleans the pipe to ensure safe exit), however in saying that, when a male ejaculates 98% of the sperm exits the body, but 2% stays in there. This can normally be flushed out with urine after sex- BUT NOT ALWAYS ALL OF IT. So, if this male had sex earlier on in the day before you, there is a chance there is sperm present in the pre-cum, if not- there is a very low chance. Hope that helps
Pre-cum does not contain sperm, it is simply the penis' way of flushing out the urethra before the sperm emerges (picture it as a self cleaning mechanism, it cleans the pipe to ensure safe exit), however in saying that, when a male ejaculates 98% of the sperm exits the body, but 2% stays in there. This can normally be flushed out with urine after sex- BUT NOT ALWAYS ALL OF IT. So, if this male had sex earlier on in the day before you, there is a chance there is sperm present in the pre-cum, if not- there is a very low chance. Hope that helps
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(Okay listen sweetie I am 21 with a 8 month old baby boy. I am a single mom and was engaged to the baby's father but he was abusive so I left. So do not let them put you down for having premarital sex.)
Now as for your question first off take a deep breath. There is a possibility a very small one, however having sex for the first time will throw of your cycle. So if you are normally regular then your cycle will be thrown off, I would suggest you go see your gyno and get on some pills. This will help you stay regular and that is the excuse you can use to your parents if they ask why you are on Birth control and you do not want to tell them.
Now as for your question first off take a deep breath. There is a possibility a very small one, however having sex for the first time will throw of your cycle. So if you are normally regular then your cycle will be thrown off, I would suggest you go see your gyno and get on some pills. This will help you stay regular and that is the excuse you can use to your parents if they ask why you are on Birth control and you do not want to tell them.
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Hi there, confusedgirl, I just wanted to post in support of what you've written. I know that people get anxious and they want to hear the same thing from more than one person, well, here I am. How are you doing?
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I am good but I really hope that this girl is going to be okay. Because it isn't right to yell at a girl who was just asking for help.
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i agree with you two. although after the first time i had sex my period became regular, before it would be like a week or so late or maybe not even come at all. i was very happy when it became regular. and if that can happen to me then it makes perfect sense that it could throw off your cycle too. all those crazy hormones and whatnot :-D
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That's really strange that having sex actually made your period regular. Did you go on birth control after having sex too?
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bluedog wrote:
nope. it was weird. because i remember i was worried i might be pregnant just because i had had sex. lolz. i was young. i didnt notice at first, it took a few months before i realized i could pretty much time it to the hour of when i was supposed to get it. it made me happy so i never really tried to figure out why that happened. gift horse in the mouth and all that.
sixlilpenguins wrote:
i agree with you two. although after the first time i had sex my period became regular, before it would be like a week or so late or maybe not even come at all. i was very happy when it became regular. and if that can happen to me then it makes perfect sense that it could throw off your cycle too. all those crazy hormones and whatnot :D
That's really strange that having sex actually made your period regular. Did you go on birth control after having sex too?
nope. it was weird. because i remember i was worried i might be pregnant just because i had had sex. lolz. i was young. i didnt notice at first, it took a few months before i realized i could pretty much time it to the hour of when i was supposed to get it. it made me happy so i never really tried to figure out why that happened. gift horse in the mouth and all that.
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Were you using protection at the time or was it unsafe? I'm really curious to figure out what exactly happened now! It sounds pretty unique.
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sixlilpenguins wrote:
And again just to clarify, you're not on birth control? I don't think I have ever heard of a woman having a more regular period based on sex alone! Not that it's unusual, but it is unique. How long has this been going on now? Is it still regular?
yeah we used protection.
And again just to clarify, you're not on birth control? I don't think I have ever heard of a woman having a more regular period based on sex alone! Not that it's unusual, but it is unique. How long has this been going on now? Is it still regular?
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