Dear Health Professionals,
My name is C*B and I'm 15 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend A*B* (age 14) for a year and a half and we are very into each other. Recently after months of trying, we've finally been able to have sex. We've had sex about 10 times and we ran out of a condom once and didn't use one. I know it was wrong, but Andrew has never ejaculated. Never. I don't think he's matured enough to cum. I've given him blow jobs, hand jobs and now we've had sex and I'm almost sure he's never came or ever had an orgasm. At age 14, is that normal not to ejaculate? Could there be something wrong? Could I get pregnant from not using protection if he doesn't cum at all? Not even pre-cum.
Thank you for your time and answers, CB.
My name is C*B and I'm 15 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend A*B* (age 14) for a year and a half and we are very into each other. Recently after months of trying, we've finally been able to have sex. We've had sex about 10 times and we ran out of a condom once and didn't use one. I know it was wrong, but Andrew has never ejaculated. Never. I don't think he's matured enough to cum. I've given him blow jobs, hand jobs and now we've had sex and I'm almost sure he's never came or ever had an orgasm. At age 14, is that normal not to ejaculate? Could there be something wrong? Could I get pregnant from not using protection if he doesn't cum at all? Not even pre-cum.
Thank you for your time and answers, CB.
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First, we don't use real names here, CB. And so we've substituted some random initial for your names. (You never know who else may be looking in, trying to learn things here...)
Second, YES, you CAN get pregnant even if you don't think that he comes. All it takes is one live sperm to still be in his urethra after he's either been masturbating or had a "wet dream"... and that could be the one!
At age 14, it's not unusal for guys NOT to come... but then, why is he engaging in sex? What's in it for him? (I assume that all guys want to come, here....)
Also, you have no proof that he's not masturbating to relieve tension or to keep from coming too soon when he's with you. Some guys have been taught that to come too soon, before the girl comes, is the height of embarassment. But not everyone.
I wouldn't assume that anything is wrong with him... but I would NEVER have intercourse without some protection...EVER!
It's time that you recognised that if you're going to play like an adult, you must accept the responsibility to be protected EVERY TIME!
Second, YES, you CAN get pregnant even if you don't think that he comes. All it takes is one live sperm to still be in his urethra after he's either been masturbating or had a "wet dream"... and that could be the one!
At age 14, it's not unusal for guys NOT to come... but then, why is he engaging in sex? What's in it for him? (I assume that all guys want to come, here....)
Also, you have no proof that he's not masturbating to relieve tension or to keep from coming too soon when he's with you. Some guys have been taught that to come too soon, before the girl comes, is the height of embarassment. But not everyone.
I wouldn't assume that anything is wrong with him... but I would NEVER have intercourse without some protection...EVER!
It's time that you recognised that if you're going to play like an adult, you must accept the responsibility to be protected EVERY TIME!
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