Hello. I'm 24 year old male and I would like to hear some other people experience about these strange cold feet or pre-wedding jitters.
About three months I've asked the most beautiful woman on world to marry me. She said- Yes- and my world turned around me.
We were together about two years before it and I felt she is the woman I would like to spend the rest of my life with. She told me she’s feeling the same about me. Wedding date is scheduled in six weeks. Everything turned out so perfect but some strange feelings are taking me. I become really stressed because I don’t know will I be a good husband and is she really the right for me. My whole life will change in a second and I don’t know what to do about this. Is this normal thing to feel before marring the woman of your life!?
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You don’t have to be scared of your feelings because they are completely normal. They happen because marriage really does change your whole life and most people ask them self are they made the right decision. Problem is only that there are no rules, there’s no pattern- jitters come in waves. Many psychologists believe that these jitters are about committing to someone else who is going to be more important than your own family.
Jitters can be treated with complete relaxation and medication. You must be aware that everything will not be perfect. There is no perfect wedding, the perfect apartment, the perfect friends, the perfect sister in law- accept it as soon as you can. I wish you happy life and all the luck you can get!
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