we have a very open household and our 14 year old daughter masturbates openly on the couch and We have no issues with that as like I say we are a very open household however when she was masturbating this morning this liquid sprayed from her vagina and soaked the couch and floor she became extremely embarrassed and began asking all these questions which I don't know how to handle, I did say I don't mind her continuing to openly masturbating but from now on she needs to place down a towel
Just answer the questions she asks to the best of your knowledge, if you dont know the answers then either Google them ask in here or just explain to her you don't know the answer, some people will probably say its bad that you let her do it but its your house so your choice and this day and age masturbation is not something to hide because nearly every person has tried it or do it still.
You could look up squirting and find out more about that. The problem is some say it's urine while others say differently. My wife used to soak the bed when we were younger and way back then there was no internet to check it out. I never thought it was urine but I never had the desire to find out what urine tastes like to compare it. I don't think it had much of any taste. All I noticed was that my face would be extremely wet afterward. At any rate it's just normal so she doesn't need to worry about it, in fact when she gets a lover he will probably love it.
You’re daughter squirted it can be very confusing for girls when this happens especially as sex Ed classes in schools don’t teach this just explain to her that it’s normal and nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about it’s also good that you allow her to explore herself and her sexuality openly rather than enclosing it.
Your daughter just experienced the highest level of an orgasm. Squirting is very normal and I am glad she discovered it so early than late. She will want to reach that level every time now, I encourage you to get her some toys so her fingers are not stressed out. Plus toys give a bigger and faster experience. When I used to play with myself using just my fingers, I’d cramp up my hands sometimes and toys really relieved me of that pain. So happy you all are open to her masturbating in public (at home). I was never allowed to, wish I did.
She is very lucky. Most women can't have that that extreme orgasm. She will love it
It's good you let her master bate.Explain to her bodily fluids are normal
Not to worry, your daughter is only squirting, it's one of the highest forms of orgasm and loads of fun! I'm a parent with a 15 year old daughter, my family has been living as naturists for our whole lives, and I want my daughter to know that I don't mind her relieving herself in common areas of our household and that she doesn't always have to go to her room to do it. Might you or anyone else on this thread be able to share some tips or advice for introducing an open masturbation suggestion to my daughter?
Perhaps it's as easy as having a conversation with her to let her know that what she is doing is very common and that you accept the fact that when she feels the need for sexual relief, she can do it wherever she wants. After putting a towel under herself to make cleanup easy as putting the towel into the laundry.
Pretty weird you just allow your child to do that where ever, whenever they please. Seek therapy because that's just super creepy.
Hi there I’m not the original poster but have introduced this. Both me and my husband have got three daughters and we always used to be a very private family however that changed during covid lockdowns.
If you are wanting to allow her to do this openly firstly be open and loving as she may feel differently towards it.
We had a conversation with our daughters individually and then all together so they knew what we were talking about.
If she’s decides then go ahead. We have a set of cotton draws next to the sofa and it has tissues towels and lube in my oldest daughter often will have to use a towel and we make no big deal out of that.
I don’t know if your daughter experiences squirting but if she does and she decides to openly masturbate then don’t make any comments on something so natural.
I hope this helps but please feel free to ask if you have any more questions.
Louise.
I just sprayed something reading this story, sh!t. For me, I love for people to watch. At the very least if someone is in the same room with me and they know what I'm doing. Well, that's all part or the experience for me. And I started masterbating at 9 or maybe younger and no my household was not open minded at all.
My daughter has been open masturbating since she was 10 and it has been no issues. But recently she had a boy over fingering her and she squirted. But the boy didn’t know and he kinda freaked and hurt her feelings. What do I do?
I would sit the boy and your daughter down and just explain what squirting is why it happens and that its normal to experience. Along with this tell the boy why it happens and that he has done nothing wrong and explain to your daughter why the boy may have been freaked out.
maybe have her sit on a towel next time she lets this boy rub and use his finger on her vagina or alternatively have them let it happen and maybe do it on the floor and let it dry. I dont know if this was your daughters first time having this happen or how much she squirted so the reality is just talk to them.
Omg I tried that route and almost got busted. My daughter needs a friend