Hi everyone i need a serious advise I m facing a difficulty to open a very tight vagina of my wife since a year. she is feeling pain even with finger kindly advise me what to do i m really tense. Kind regards
The first thing you need to know is to make sure she is ready for it to happen mentally an not just because she wants to please you, she then needs to be fully relaxed with plenty of foreplay before you even go near her vagina so plenty of kissing in all her sensitive spots but not her vagina, sucking and playing with her nipples, when she starts to relax and enjoy that you will know by the pleasurable sounds she makes, then it's time to move on to her thighs softly stroke and kiss them running your fingers up to her labia then softly over her labia teasing it as you go as she starts to get wet run your finger over her wetness and spread it along her slit to the clitoral hood and start to massage and tease that with your fingers and tongue, kissing and sucking also, before running your tongue down between her labia to tease her vagina entrance, always make your finger wet either with her juices or saliva before you try to insert it.
All of this should take between 90 to 120 minutes depending on how long it takes her to fully relax.
i am a Muslim and its not allowed to suck and lick the vagina and regarding fingering she feel much pain is there any other way to open vagina gently.
Thanks for your time