Ok, I'm a 19 year old gay male, and one day after making a poo, I noticed something wasn't right after I sit down on my chair. I didn't feel pain; it was...an uncomfortable feeling on my ass. Like a big pimple.

I searched the entrance of my anus with my finger and felt a hard lump, like a pea you know? And it was extremeeeely uncomfortable, and I just wanted to get out that thing. I asked a good friend of mine to see what it looked like, and he said it was black. Like a black pea on the entrance of my anus. This had been bothering me for a week or so. I didn't go to the doctor because I was ashamed and people told me it was hemorrhoids and it was fine after a week or two. Well, a week after (I think), I felt it with my finger again and instead of hard and itchy, it felt softer and going inside. The poo wasn't with blood, ever, since the start of this whole business. So, days after, that thing disappeared. I dunno if it got inside, or 'melted' or something. I just don't feel it anymore. So, did I have hemorrhoids? Will it come back?

And now I have another doubt. Can I have sex with it gone? I'm so afraid. Afraid of getting blood spilled out or hurting like hell because of it. Can I relax about this whole business and just do it like I normally do?

I really appreciate some feedback =\