I am 13 years old boy.
PLEASE ADVICE: Does masterbating affect you by any way, like health problems?
If I stop masterbating would anything happen such as health problems?
PLEASE REPLY!
PLEASE ADVICE: Does masterbating affect you by any way, like health problems?
If I stop masterbating would anything happen such as health problems?
PLEASE REPLY!
i started when i was 12 and i havent been able to stop no matter how hard i try! i recomend you to never do it again trust me! it feels good but it can mess u up! it can become an adiction!
From what ive heard masterbation can decrease your chances of prostate cancer and otehr harmfull things. when you masterbate you are working your prostate which helps reduce the risk.
Actually, all three of you have part of the truth...
It's sort of like that old tale of the 3 blind men who are all trying to describe an elephant... touching the trunk, the tail or the leg... all were right, but all were wrong.
The truth is that 90 percent of all men masturbate...and the other 10 percent are liars.
There is no physical harm in masturbation. The problem lies in becoming totally into yourself so much that you don't build relationships with others.
There is no physical harm in NOT masturbating. If you don't, every two weeks or so, your body will begin to have "wet dreams" to get rid of excess semen and sperm. You can't stop this, only control whether your body has to or not.
There has been some recent study results that indicates a lower incident of prostate cancer in men who masturbate... but that is hardly conclusive.
If you are truely troubled by this topic and your habbits, try talking with your family doctor, your team coach, or your religious advisor. Parents can also be a great source of information, but you might also freak them out too. But consider asking your dad in a neutral, private setting about how you should deal with it.
Good luck.
It's sort of like that old tale of the 3 blind men who are all trying to describe an elephant... touching the trunk, the tail or the leg... all were right, but all were wrong.
The truth is that 90 percent of all men masturbate...and the other 10 percent are liars.
There is no physical harm in masturbation. The problem lies in becoming totally into yourself so much that you don't build relationships with others.
There is no physical harm in NOT masturbating. If you don't, every two weeks or so, your body will begin to have "wet dreams" to get rid of excess semen and sperm. You can't stop this, only control whether your body has to or not.
There has been some recent study results that indicates a lower incident of prostate cancer in men who masturbate... but that is hardly conclusive.
If you are truely troubled by this topic and your habbits, try talking with your family doctor, your team coach, or your religious advisor. Parents can also be a great source of information, but you might also freak them out too. But consider asking your dad in a neutral, private setting about how you should deal with it.
Good luck.
i masturbated the first time five years ago and i know there is no problem with it. its just nature, right? it is very difficult to stop but i have a solution: 1. talk with your dad. 2. try doing other activities when you get the urge- like calling a friend or reading a book. Remember, it is no crime and it happens to all of us.
Yeah, I started about 3 years ago when I was 10. At that time i didn't know anything about it other than it felt good. I stoped a few months ago, and you guys are right it's really addictive.
Yeah, I started about 3 years ago. I really didn't know anything about it other then it felt good. And all of you are right, it is addictive. I stoped about 6 months ago, it was really hard though...
WELL I ACTUALLY STARTED 7 YEARS AGO WEN I WAS 7 I KNOW I WAS A BIT TO YOUNG AYE ANYWAY I ALWAYS GET CAUGHT BY MY MUM AND I HAVE TO TELL HER IM SCRATCHING AT MY EXMA LAST TIME I TRIED TO QUIT I COULDNT GO FOR MORE THAN 2 WEEKS ITS SO ADICTIVE
This has been my addiction since I was maybe 14. I absolutely believe it is wrong. When I say wrong, I mean morally. I feel guilty after every time I masterbate. I've been almost to the point of tears because of how bad I feel sometimes. But that's not why I think it's wrong. Feeling can be very deceptive. It think it's wrong because I follow Jesus. Jesus says in Matthew 5 that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. I am an adulterer and I hate it and I want to stop it.
When I was 18 I quit masterbating. For two years I was completely clean I and felt great. The guilt was gone. This was only possible through the power of Christ. I asked God to help me... no I begged God to help me, and he lived up by His power. He stole me away from my demons. Of course, it only happened when I stopped relying on my strength and fully gave it to God. I praise God for helping me when I needed him the most.
But, Im not going to lie. I've fallen back into it. About 5 months ago, I just got bored and decided I should just try it a little. What could it hurt right? I had been free from this bondage for so long, there's no way I could be shackeled again. But as soon as I started, I remembered how good it felt. That was all the devil needed, and he has enticed me ever since. I pray that Jesus will fight my battles for me. I pray against my unfaith in God. I truly believe that the God I serve is powerful enough to help me. But I know from experience; I have to let him carry me. I can't walk it on my own.
So I'm older now and I realize some of the factors that draw me to masterbation. One is stress. When I get stressed I need an outlet, and this appeals strongly to me every time. Another factor is loneliness. Whenever I feel friendless, I want to make myself feel better, and this is my way. Basically, any time I feel like I don't have control over a situation, I masterbate because it's something I can control.
One antidote I use is to busy myself and not to get bored. Another is to read God's Word (the Bible), to pray, and to earnestly look at Jesus. It helps because I read things like in Hebrews when it says that Jesus was tempted in every way but with out sin. That means I have a God who can sympathize with me. Also I can look at Romans and see that Paul, probably the greatest and most well known apostle, had his own problems with sin. Listen to this and see if it's not how you feel: "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do, I do not do, but what I hate to do." He's pretty much just saying that he knows what's right, but he can't follow through with it. He finds himself doing the very thing he hates.
Now I know that not everyone here has that same veiw as me. I don't care. I have the freedom (at least as of now) to voice my opinion. You don't have to agree. I believe that God brings hope to the hopeless. He is the way out of this addiction. It's only going to come through a powerful amount of prayer and hunger for God instead of this destructive habit. If any of you pray, please pray for me that this will end. You don't have to know my name, God already does. Thanx and God bless.
When I was 18 I quit masterbating. For two years I was completely clean I and felt great. The guilt was gone. This was only possible through the power of Christ. I asked God to help me... no I begged God to help me, and he lived up by His power. He stole me away from my demons. Of course, it only happened when I stopped relying on my strength and fully gave it to God. I praise God for helping me when I needed him the most.
But, Im not going to lie. I've fallen back into it. About 5 months ago, I just got bored and decided I should just try it a little. What could it hurt right? I had been free from this bondage for so long, there's no way I could be shackeled again. But as soon as I started, I remembered how good it felt. That was all the devil needed, and he has enticed me ever since. I pray that Jesus will fight my battles for me. I pray against my unfaith in God. I truly believe that the God I serve is powerful enough to help me. But I know from experience; I have to let him carry me. I can't walk it on my own.
So I'm older now and I realize some of the factors that draw me to masterbation. One is stress. When I get stressed I need an outlet, and this appeals strongly to me every time. Another factor is loneliness. Whenever I feel friendless, I want to make myself feel better, and this is my way. Basically, any time I feel like I don't have control over a situation, I masterbate because it's something I can control.
One antidote I use is to busy myself and not to get bored. Another is to read God's Word (the Bible), to pray, and to earnestly look at Jesus. It helps because I read things like in Hebrews when it says that Jesus was tempted in every way but with out sin. That means I have a God who can sympathize with me. Also I can look at Romans and see that Paul, probably the greatest and most well known apostle, had his own problems with sin. Listen to this and see if it's not how you feel: "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do, I do not do, but what I hate to do." He's pretty much just saying that he knows what's right, but he can't follow through with it. He finds himself doing the very thing he hates.
Now I know that not everyone here has that same veiw as me. I don't care. I have the freedom (at least as of now) to voice my opinion. You don't have to agree. I believe that God brings hope to the hopeless. He is the way out of this addiction. It's only going to come through a powerful amount of prayer and hunger for God instead of this destructive habit. If any of you pray, please pray for me that this will end. You don't have to know my name, God already does. Thanx and God bless.
Well it is very bad thing to do, But you can stop with strong desire..I Belielve that Isalm gave people answer about that and it is very easy solution:
shorten you sight down of any women that is not a wife, Mother ,sister or unt.
you can't look to a women in sexy look. this is the problem..
see women as sisters or doughters or even mothers. and the problem will be solved.
it is all about what you think and where are your Ideas comming from!!
try my advice and stick """"stick""" to it.
shorten you sight down of any women that is not a wife, Mother ,sister or unt.
you can't look to a women in sexy look. this is the problem..
see women as sisters or doughters or even mothers. and the problem will be solved.
it is all about what you think and where are your Ideas comming from!!
try my advice and stick """"stick""" to it.
Masturbating is good for you lol. It ensures that your sexual oragans are functioning properly.
It will not give your any weird disease or anything its just natural.
It will not give your any weird disease or anything its just natural.
not only I do not agree with your bent over believes, but I also think that you've been fed so much garbage over the years that it has (may be) helped you in some ways, but has obviously mentally screwed you up.
But, if it is of any concession, so many of others like you exist that tie evert freaking thing to religion and Jesus non-sesnse.
Get a life. Don't be ignorant. Read and educate yourself about natural human behavior...
Sorry for being so harsh.
You can be observant AND sensable at the same time. Try it.
But, if it is of any concession, so many of others like you exist that tie evert freaking thing to religion and Jesus non-sesnse.
Get a life. Don't be ignorant. Read and educate yourself about natural human behavior...
Sorry for being so harsh.
You can be observant AND sensable at the same time. Try it.
i hav been masturbating for a cople years now and i hate it it feels weird and wrong. im thirteen and i realize i have a problem. im trying to quit but its so hard! it truly is addicting. i did it like two minutes ago. AND IM A GIRL! its freaky and i rely wana stop!
well i personay have been masterbating since i was like 14 years of age and it is so addicting idk how to stop i fell like a pig everytime i finish idk why i do it i have a hot girl friend that gives me sex when ever im going to comiite to my self not to masturbate going from now on
I think it is a sin. It is said that we already know what is good and bad, even as little as when we were infants. So to me I think anything that you feel guilty of after doing it is a sin,because the conscience of right and wrong has already been programmed in us.
One way to quit this habit is to think of how guilty you will feel after doing it. That is, the tactic of the devil is to concentrate all your mind on how it feels. But will never remind you that you will feel guilty afterwards. So counter these urges and feelings that makes you think only on the feeling with the guilt and you will immediately stop. Also think in this way whether you satisfy that feelings with that or not you will definitely be back to your normal mood.
It is not like food hunger which definitely needs to be satisfied or else seems to persist forever. This situation is temporary and it will go after about 15minutes if you ignore.
So you can try learning how to resist this anytime the urge comes and you will see it gone after a while when no action is taken.You will also know how long it takes for your urge to go so you will be prepared next time.
One way to quit this habit is to think of how guilty you will feel after doing it. That is, the tactic of the devil is to concentrate all your mind on how it feels. But will never remind you that you will feel guilty afterwards. So counter these urges and feelings that makes you think only on the feeling with the guilt and you will immediately stop. Also think in this way whether you satisfy that feelings with that or not you will definitely be back to your normal mood.
It is not like food hunger which definitely needs to be satisfied or else seems to persist forever. This situation is temporary and it will go after about 15minutes if you ignore.
So you can try learning how to resist this anytime the urge comes and you will see it gone after a while when no action is taken.You will also know how long it takes for your urge to go so you will be prepared next time.