i'm feeling very shy with my husband on bed,,while we are outside i dont feel any shyness but on bed i cant satisfy him,,he wants me to be open but i cant,i'm feeling very shy so how can i loose my shyness on bed? can anyone plz help me and give me few suggestions plz?
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How long have you and your husband known each other? How things look in your everyday life when it comes to shyness? If your shyness is related only to sex keep in mind that you are not the only one who was raised all her life to think that’s inappropriate to even try to educate more about these issues, so now that you are married you basically seem unprepared. I know your husband just wants you to “loosen up”, but that can only be achieved through time and series of playful sexy activities which don’t necessarily have to lead to intercourse.
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i 'm married 4 months back...i mean that i am free with him in other activities like kissing,,hugs etc........but he needs different types of sex,,different methods,,,i 'm feeling so shy that i cannot expose myself that much....?
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How is he reacting to your shyness so far? You two are still newlyweds, it takes some time before you two establish more or less routinely ways. You have every possible right to feel uncomfortable with some sexual acts, in fact most woman are, but you didn’t really made it clear here what exactly makes you most uncomfortable?
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he wants oral sex but,,i'm feeling unconfortable with it.and he wants me to do the same but i feeling as if it is wrong we should not do,or wat is it that kind how odd how allergitic i feel like that . Is that wrong my feeling? can u plz help me how to cop up in such situations? after every time i feel breast pain thw whole day why is it so??
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you just need to find what turns you on. Start with trying something that is new to both u and ur husband. That way if something doesnt go right, u'll both have a good laugh and it wont be so embarrassing if ur both going through it. Ive learned that it is a minor moment of shyness and to bare through it. I ended up enjoying it. My husband is willing to try new things and is very open with me about what he enjoys because of it. Remember, sex is something you share only with your husband. He chose u to sleep next to every night. Give it a try, u might just like it and it may give u ideas u may want ur husband to try for u. The benefits of fighting ur shyness in this area of life can be worth it.
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dear let me share my experience. i was having the same problem. i was too shy to have sex with my hubby.. but u have to do everythng to please ur hubby. first look at the thngs whch give u pleasure the most like being kissed sucked what ever why doing so slowly start touchng ur husband penis. specially do sex in dim lights with light music and moderate room temp. try to stay relax and consider him ur friend
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Um well, u know, kissing is nice and his penis is most pleasure place for him. Why not? He will love you for do that.
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