I got fingered the other day for the first time by my boyfriend. When he did it, it really hurt.
Im not sure if this is supposed to happen the first time or what ?
Can anyone help me out, what can i do to make it not hurt.
Im not sure if this is supposed to happen the first time or what ?
Can anyone help me out, what can i do to make it not hurt.
Hello there,
It all depends if you are in the mood or ready for something like that.
If you are a virgin , yes it hurts at first time. If you are not, then he is probably doing something wrong.
It all depends on what you want and if it makes u feel comfortable.
Hope I have helped you in some way.
Yes i am still a virgin, my friend said that it will keep on hurting until you have sex. Im not to sure if that's true.
Your Friend is right, because when you do have sex it will hurt in the beginning because its something that the body gets used off (meaning it takes time) for me it stooped hurting on the 3rd time I had sex with my partner.
It takes time for your inner muscles to get used of the hole fingering thing.
Keep in mind, that when you feel ready to have sex with the right person always have safe sex. If he doesnt have a condom then always have one with you just in case and of course when you are ready.
If you need to ask me anything else , feel free to do so.
You are not alone :D
I dont think im just ready to have sex yet.
so to get this clear, will it keep hurting when i get fingered everytime ?
so to get this clear, will it keep hurting when i get fingered everytime ?
Yes, until your body gets used to it
On average, how many times does it usually take. Or does it vary within each person ?
There isn't a average . It simply depends on the body. Everybody is different to that.
okaay then, thank you for the advice.
have you got any tips i could use to make things more fun for both of us ?
have you got any tips i could use to make things more fun for both of us ?
Your welcome,
Well yes, baby oil is always the trick to make u feel comfortable and hurt less then usually and it always surprises your partner.
Hope I have helped enough :D
Well yes, baby oil is always the trick to make u feel comfortable and hurt less then usually and it always surprises your partner.
Hope I have helped enough :D
Thanks for all the advice, really helped.
ive been talking to him about it :) x
ive been talking to him about it :) x
that's good, I am happy to be able, to help you out :D
hey i also materbate for d 1st tym..
n i ws nt willing to..
is dr any other way to get rid of it..
n i ws nt willing to..
is dr any other way to get rid of it..
get rid of what? I didn't quite understood your question
do reply if u feel like i will be waiting